@ColdEmbraceOfDeath Yeah, I went the cheaper route and just bought their $99 Tenga Flip Zero Black.

Pick up a hobby, a craft of some kind.

@ColdEmbraceOfDeath most problems are not significant. It’s not trivializing, it’s putting them into perspective without emotion.

You have no idea. I used to get suicidal over small things, but now I realized that they're not that significant.

If they're not significant, why would you bother dealing with them then? Why not let it be then?

@MufflePuff I agree to an extent. I am an over-thinker by nature so I do tend to PEDASTALIZE problems. I will focus on realizing "what's the worse case really?"

It’s not choosing to view it a certain way, it’s acknowledging how big it really is.

@ColdEmbraceOfDeath Outside of gaming, reading, lifting and programming... I don't know what I want to do.

Do you have an instrument?

For the first time in my life, I am content and at peace but I feel stifled and like I am decaying.

I never took to music but I did enjoy singing.

Trying to learn something on wikipedia, it's like a fucking rabbit hole.

That's true 😄

@machtyn that’s a solid plan man. Honestly you’ve already done the hardest part in figuring it out.

Check out minimalism. It's letting go of things that don't serve you anymore.

Learn gardening, sewing, etc.,

@MufflePuff Yeah. I want these next 14 months to be totally dedicated to ME and my habits. I want to cement these fuckers in place so it's second nature.

A musical instrument.

I'd want to learn those really, to learn how to cook, to be able to sew, make cosplay props etc.,

@hel Bro 😄 I own a total of 100 items. No lie. I own nothing. I LOVE minimalism. I discovered minimalism when I was 15.

So much freedom that you don't know what to do with it, yep.

@ColdEmbraceOfDeath I've looked at so many hobby lists online and honestly nothing really piques my interest. I really really love technology/engineering/math in medicine/finance.

@hel Yes!

RIP, a minister got MeToo'd and he has resigned. But he says he's going to challenge them false allegations against him.

Yeah, I’m a lifetime overthinker. Took me a long time to change the way I obsessed over things.

What about doing nothing and let yourself sit still?

I could literally sell everything I own and take a bus to Chicago or NYC or LA with no issue. I could pack up within 20 mins and drive anywhere.

Imagine being able to do that with a woman in your life.

@MufflePuff Yes! It finally clicked when I graduated and started working... I used to BINGE learn. I would just learn a ton of stuff but then I switched to "just in time" learning and would write out to-do lists on projects, then as I started building something, I'd learn the pre-req knowledge required to do it.

@hel I am debating making that my entire weekend.

@hel I have been listening to this vikings meditation thing that's pretty amazing and I really do value just sitting in nature and chilling.

OH MY GOD

You too?

#KillSlowMode

#SlowModeSucksCock

The one for masculinity or the one for success?

@hel Yes! I forget who recommended it... but it was somewhere here.

I think it's the only one on youtube lol

There's a hypnosis session for 'No More Mr Nice Guy'. But it's a bit longer than your regular guided meditation.

Link?

I'd check that one out. I sometimes fall into nice guy.