In the us it costs a life time of debt to pursue higher education.

Yeah, I know

I did something equally as dumb I bought house for 135000 with no money down.

If I had born in USA, I have just gone to a trade school. I'm not kidding

It's been 10 years of paying extra every month and I still owe 110000

Damn!

At the time I had gf and thought she would stick around and have a family with me.

I bought a house for us. Well that and I had plan. I thought I could live in it for 5 years and then rent it out and move on with an asset.

You were a extreme bluepill then....

brb

This is true.

She left me to go University.

For art. At the time I was into girls in Pursuit of higher education.

She left you for art.... Seems like you were on the profit side.

So I let her go. Who am I to alter someone's personal path.

I wanted an educated woman. At the time I was convinced that men and women were equally responsible for providing for a house hold.

back

Yikes!

That's what my parents did.

Damn, son.

Unfortunately they are traditionalist from a different time.

I hadn't realised how much the social contract had changed.

Boy was i naive.

I lost 2 more later for the same reason.

I wanted to do what my parents did and have family, but I required an equal partner to do so.

They were programmed to think that seeking higher education and a career is more important.

And... How did you found mgtow?

Ahh now that is an interesting story.

It all started late one night at a bar.

I was drowning the sorroes of feeling like an alien in today's society.

I knew I was I different and at time I knew that few men understude female nature as I did.

So I got to talking to this older guy probably about 50.

And we got to talking about women.

I told him that all the women I had been with were delusional.

And he corrected me.

He said American women are like that.

The thought had never crossed my kind that this was something isolated to Western culture.

I just assumed that it was all women.

And showed me a picture on his phone of a woman.

A beautiful woman in bikini probably 22.

He said that's my wife.