I'm not talking about physical

How else then?

Emotional blackmail

Playing the game that women play. Whatever works for you.

I've let her know that I can leave at any time

Wich id true. I have backup plans

Tell me this, what do you stand to gain from being in relationship knowing how female nature works? If you're not having kids, there really is no need to have any sort of long term relationship with a woman.

I want to have kids, therefore I took the risk of living together to see if we can workout as a couple

We are sharing our duties in here

She cooks, I wash the dishes

She cleans 2/3 of the house, and I take of the rest, together with the garden

Our finances are shared 60/40

I drive her around with my motorcycle, she wash my clothes

Ayy try the best you can dude. Good luck, plan for the worst

Who is the primary bread winner? Who works the longest hours and makes most of the money? Because if you are that person, it's stupid to be doing that and also doing part of the house work, if she's not working at all, which most likely will be the case when she has kids, you're signing up for a shit deal, even if it doesn't fall apart.

I want kids but never dated a woman I'd consider them with

Why this chick then?

Oh never mind, I thought it was him.

Brb

Having kids doesn't make you happy or anything, there studies to suggest this, plus those who have never had kids are much less stressed out and stuff.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZTpk2hodhxM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oNNs9LycA60

Oho!

If she doesn't take care of the kids, you can bet that I will push her out the door

It doesn't happen that easily when the family court exists.

I'm taking ddj's advices here. If she stops investing in the relation, I'm out

Consider that cohabitation for a certain amount of years can be considered legally married.

There's no family court in my country. Only civilian court

Good for you then.

Some part of eastern Europe or some south east asian country?

Brasil

Right, not the best country to be in with all the crime and shit.

Criminality.... Pfff! Just find a way of not be an statistic and you will be fine

Also, tough times makes tough men, right?

¯\_(ツ)_/¯

There are certain situations you can't avoid whereas plenty that you don't need to go through at all.

Even if it makes your stronger, no bloody reason to face that shit if you can avoid it.

Correct

But dont get me wrong, I'm not trying to persuade you to cohabitation

Lol. I wouldn't get persuaded.