@legendpinnen could be, but I really think most people are spread out here, so there has definitely been random spikes in activity.

the red pill message?

?

The initial message you're referring to? Are you saying people are lurkers because they are gauging the environment, based on the shock value of the red pill realization?

i got that first part but what d you mean by " based on the shock value of the red pill realization?" ?

When you say the message is the hardest, are you saying that it's hard for people to internalize MGTOW at first, so they lurk in the community to understand the philosophy? Kind of like when a housecat is brought to a new home, it hides immediately for a day or so to gauge it's surroundings.

what are some exercises i could do with dumbbells and a yoga mat?

that could be a part of it but i didnt think that much into it. Just that people are nervous of judgement or being ignored for example and thats why they lurk to kinda read the atmosphere

@hel I wouldn't suggest doing both together. You need a solid foundation when working with weights or you could lose your balance and pull something. That's why gyms tend to have concrete floors or hard mats.

But it depends really on what muscle groups you're trying to build.

and how heavy the dumbbells are.

i mean with light dumbbells

that shouldn't be a problem

Which muscle group?

chest for example

@legendpinnen agreed. I'm an overthinker, but yeah. I think a large amount of people prefer people watching too; maybe just to gather perspectives without contributing.

yea maybe

@hel Hmmm. I can't think of anything you can use a yoga mat and dumbells for when building chest; other than a flat dumbbell press (as if you were on a bench). This would limit your range of motion because the your elbows would hit the floor, but it's a great exercise for starters.

I would suggest skipping the dumbbells and doing diamond pushups on the yoga mat instead.

or standing the dumbbells up and resting your toes on top of them to add a decline element to the pushups. This could add weight resistance, which would increase the intensity of the exercise for better results.

If you were going to do the flat dumbbell press on the mat, you could superset a standard wide press with a close press by bringing the dumbbells together. This would work your inner chest too and activate the triceps as well.

alright thanks for the tips

off-topic but i thought it was funny, so today in school a topic about marriage came up and one guy said men wear black because they bury their freedom xD

Lmao!

They're going to a funeral.

I'm reading why brides wear white and the explanations are hilarious

'It is an emblem of the purity and innocence of girlhood, and the unsullied heart she now yields to the chosen one.’

Her heart isn't the only thing that's been sullied.

HOW DARE YOU THINK THAT WOMEN ARE HYPERSEXUAL

Lmao she **is** the bachelor party. #gangganggang

Anyone ever notice how women are friendly as hell towards you, more than usual, and then they end up pregnant like 1-2 months later? This happened twice this year <:1ewdzs:480186121897377792>

as long as it isnt u on the line for that bill

If a woman is friendly, my suspicion is on fire.

most likely wants something

humans in general r like that

Lmao like Tupac said: "hoes get horny, niggaz die"

When a woman is flirting with me at work and another dude walks in and starts flirting with her, I either get quiet or remove myself from the room.

Reminds me why I have trust issues with people

I dont calibrate, I'm either a paranoid dickhead or a naive sucker

whats up

Ay