Message from @ToastMcGhost
Discord ID: 513582364266594334
It wasn’t like that when I typed something lewd so it is better now
Talking is easy Kou, just gotta learn to stop caring what people think about you.
I asked if she didn't like it and she's like I like it with you and I did it again and she's like * rolls her eyes *.
It’s quite hard for me to talk random stuff and react to something :/
Have some generic responses and stuff then, use those lines and work with it.
Only can talk when the topic is explicit
Like with everything, it takes practise - what comes naturally to you, isnt for others
That's kind of these PUAs do shit.
Like they have these specific openers and crap.
Yeah I heard about PUAs and it’s messed up
PUA is snake oil though.
Gaming made it easier for me to have conversations with strangers
Yeah that too
@Kou Let me help you out follow these steps:
1.) Hi, I'm (your name here). Whats your name?
2.) How are you doing today?
3.) What are your hobbies?
Just ask questions.
I am good at answering question but it’s hard for me to actually react and join in random chats unless I understand them. And I get overly conscious
And most of the time I ask many questions ended up my m8 getting annoyed
:/
This is for your own personal advancement dude
You can't think about what others will or will not think of you. You're too self-conscious.
^ this too
Life became easier when I accepted it as a personality trait. It's not something I feel the need to change
You guys ever hear of Sigma males? Some of you might fit that
You mentioned it earlier, but I think I missed you going into detail about it
I googled it and it's like reading my bio lol
I'm also an ISTP (the robot) if you guys are into personality types
I forget which of those I am for the personality test
Rekt
Infp here
And yeah I think it’s no big deal if no one DMs you or you have no friends in rl. At the end you have to rely mostly yourself
Myers-Briggs, I don't know if that is even accurate.
Like it's very similar to how the Horoscope is.
It's best to take it with a grain of salt, but even loosely, it describes me pretty well
Last time I took it I got some INFP or INTP or some shit.
Its the same thing with zodiac signs in astrology - its a general idea of the majority of people in this (bracket)
Watch this video.
I think horoscopes are hokum so I shouldn't really believe in personality tests
Barnum effect indeed
But it's not to hard observe that people on the here are possibly high on Introversion on the Big five personality traits model.