Message from @ToastMcGhost

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2018-11-18 05:07:46 UTC  

It wasn’t like that when I typed something lewd so it is better now

2018-11-18 05:07:52 UTC  

Talking is easy Kou, just gotta learn to stop caring what people think about you.

2018-11-18 05:08:25 UTC  

I asked if she didn't like it and she's like I like it with you and I did it again and she's like * rolls her eyes *.

2018-11-18 05:08:29 UTC  

It’s quite hard for me to talk random stuff and react to something :/

2018-11-18 05:08:50 UTC  

Have some generic responses and stuff then, use those lines and work with it.

2018-11-18 05:08:52 UTC  

Only can talk when the topic is explicit

2018-11-18 05:08:53 UTC  
2018-11-18 05:08:56 UTC  

Like with everything, it takes practise - what comes naturally to you, isnt for others

2018-11-18 05:08:58 UTC  

That's kind of these PUAs do shit.

2018-11-18 05:09:07 UTC  

Like they have these specific openers and crap.

2018-11-18 05:09:33 UTC  

Yeah I heard about PUAs and it’s messed up

2018-11-18 05:09:40 UTC  

PUA is snake oil though.

2018-11-18 05:10:04 UTC  

Gaming made it easier for me to have conversations with strangers

2018-11-18 05:10:15 UTC  

Yeah that too

2018-11-18 05:10:25 UTC  

@Kou Let me help you out follow these steps:
1.) Hi, I'm (your name here). Whats your name?
2.) How are you doing today?
3.) What are your hobbies?

Just ask questions.

2018-11-18 05:11:22 UTC  

I am good at answering question but it’s hard for me to actually react and join in random chats unless I understand them. And I get overly conscious

2018-11-18 05:11:57 UTC  

And most of the time I ask many questions ended up my m8 getting annoyed

2018-11-18 05:12:01 UTC  

:/

2018-11-18 05:12:29 UTC  

This is for your own personal advancement dude

2018-11-18 05:12:47 UTC  

You can't think about what others will or will not think of you. You're too self-conscious.

2018-11-18 05:12:57 UTC  

I rarely initiate conversations. I'm usually hovering on the outside of groups

2018-11-18 05:13:30 UTC  

^ this too

2018-11-18 05:14:36 UTC  

Life became easier when I accepted it as a personality trait. It's not something I feel the need to change

2018-11-18 05:15:19 UTC  

You guys ever hear of Sigma males? Some of you might fit that

2018-11-18 05:15:43 UTC  

You mentioned it earlier, but I think I missed you going into detail about it

2018-11-18 05:16:02 UTC  

I googled it and it's like reading my bio lol

2018-11-18 05:16:19 UTC  

I'm also an ISTP (the robot) if you guys are into personality types

2018-11-18 05:16:41 UTC  

I forget which of those I am for the personality test

2018-11-18 05:17:21 UTC  

Rekt

2018-11-18 05:17:53 UTC  

Infp here

2018-11-18 05:18:44 UTC  

And yeah I think it’s no big deal if no one DMs you or you have no friends in rl. At the end you have to rely mostly yourself

2018-11-18 05:18:57 UTC  

Myers-Briggs, I don't know if that is even accurate.

2018-11-18 05:19:05 UTC  

Like it's very similar to how the Horoscope is.

2018-11-18 05:19:31 UTC  

It's best to take it with a grain of salt, but even loosely, it describes me pretty well

2018-11-18 05:19:40 UTC  

Last time I took it I got some INFP or INTP or some shit.

2018-11-18 05:20:01 UTC  

Its the same thing with zodiac signs in astrology - its a general idea of the majority of people in this (bracket)

2018-11-18 05:20:04 UTC  

Watch this video.

2018-11-18 05:20:55 UTC  

I think horoscopes are hokum so I shouldn't really believe in personality tests

2018-11-18 05:22:24 UTC  

Barnum effect indeed

2018-11-18 05:23:38 UTC  

But it's not to hard observe that people on the here are possibly high on Introversion on the Big five personality traits model.