Message from @ziyauren
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a girl's 'value' is purely measured on how attractive she is seen by other guys
by you not finding her attractive, you are attacking her values
it's a very shallow form of self-worth but that's what woman are... theu're shallow
they reason from analogy and never from first principles
hence, you can never have a logical discussion with them
it's called a lack of internal validation
I think it only peaks their interest. It makes them think you have some new information about what they're lacking, which could help them.
You are undiscovered territory.
that's why they thrive on the external validation
So they do whatever they can to get your attention, to figure out what they missed about building their SMV up.
they don't understand smv... to them what is now is eternal
until you self-actualise we all thrive off external validation of sorts
however to self-actualise you need to take a look inside and be alone in your head
it's common to look down on people who don't follow social convention, so this is why it's rare and hard to self-actualise
jus look in the mirror every morn n ask what u ddon't like... they r too busy puttin on makeup to ask that😄
i am currently trying to provoke a self-actualisation by listening to the same song on repeat and spending my days adding to my flowchart of how i think my life adds up. i've started from the absolute first principle that i have to assume is true in order to build and layer ideas - and the first principle i've settled is that 'we prefer to experience positive emotions over negative emotions' .
if you guys have a better idea of a first principle please let me know, i know that my one has flaws and i'm struggling to pin point something with as little flaws as possible
seems pretty solid
positivity is the foundation.
i thought about the puripose of life being to 'evolve our consciousness' but then why do we want to do this? there has to something fundamental that drives everything
and easiest to change
'as a human our 'mission' is to push the human species forward' ... but why do i care about the spcecies?
am i just trying to validate my own purpose by saying it impacts the race
Acceptance is the beginning. Then replacing negativity and toxicity with positivity for a clear mind. Then one can begin to work.
yeah exactly - when you're born you have a fundamental truth that you live life by - positive and negative feelings
there is no better feeling than to be proud of yourself by doing your own things
* i mean how would you be alone
sometimes can be little things, sometimes it can be a big step
no other people means u r alone
oh i see, do you see being alone as a good or bad thing?
and why ?
neither... ddepends on ur needs
what if you felt more positive emotions being alone
both
u come and go through the life alone
bad thing because if you start liking it too much you reject other states
it's not a bad or a good thing