@Shido sandman n tfm have both done vids on that...

Women are like the cell phone in movie scenes when someone is trying to hide from the serial killer.

Honestly, if shit hit the fan, I would stay as far away from women as possible.

when i was younger, i used to be with bitches at school (wearing strings at 12 years old), I moved to another place due to my family, I totally ignored news girls I met because I was insensitive to them. But for some reasons, the prettier girl of the school was flirting on me, and a lot of girls of my classroom ...

When you ignore them, they become obsessed.

and mad at you

for no reason

they're mad at you because they're mad at themselves for feeling inadequate

They only play like they're mad, it's a guilt tactic. Just a part of the game.

a girl's 'value' is purely measured on how attractive she is seen by other guys

by you not finding her attractive, you are attacking her values

it's a very shallow form of self-worth but that's what woman are... theu're shallow

they reason from analogy and never from first principles

hence, you can never have a logical discussion with them

it's called a lack of internal validation

I think it only peaks their interest. It makes them think you have some new information about what they're lacking, which could help them.

You are undiscovered territory.

that's why they thrive on the external validation

So they do whatever they can to get your attention, to figure out what they missed about building their SMV up.

they don't understand smv... to them what is now is eternal

@ziyauren i was looking for the word, yeah it's all about validation

until you self-actualise we all thrive off external validation of sorts

however to self-actualise you need to take a look inside and be alone in your head

it's common to look down on people who don't follow social convention, so this is why it's rare and hard to self-actualise

jus look in the mirror every morn n ask what u ddon't like... they r too busy puttin on makeup to ask that😄

i am currently trying to provoke a self-actualisation by listening to the same song on repeat and spending my days adding to my flowchart of how i think my life adds up. i've started from the absolute first principle that i have to assume is true in order to build and layer ideas - and the first principle i've settled is that 'we prefer to experience positive emotions over negative emotions' .

if you guys have a better idea of a first principle please let me know, i know that my one has flaws and i'm struggling to pin point something with as little flaws as possible

seems pretty solid

positivity is the foundation.

its like debt... look n the mirror... work on the thing u like least first

i thought about the puripose of life being to 'evolve our consciousness' but then why do we want to do this? there has to something fundamental that drives everything

and easiest to change

'as a human our 'mission' is to push the human species forward' ... but why do i care about the spcecies?

am i just trying to validate my own purpose by saying it impacts the race

Acceptance is the beginning. Then replacing negativity and toxicity with positivity for a clear mind. Then one can begin to work.

@JDB cuz w/out it u r alone

yeah exactly - when you're born you have a fundamental truth that you live life by - positive and negative feelings

there is no better feeling than to be proud of yourself by doing your own things

@ziyauren could you explain further please, how am i alone?

* i mean how would you be alone

sometimes can be little things, sometimes it can be a big step