i was in a 4 yr relationship and it ended

and i found mgtow

but its like

i see girls

and they talk to me and its like

i know how it will end

but my instincts

say otherwise

so i guess with time

it will get easier

Mgtow isn't always monk mode

You gotta do what works for you

True. @Whats gay anymore

Just no marriage no simping and no living together

for me its monk mode because for me if i end up smashing i

catch feelings

Oof rough

It's not against the philosophy to get some or learn self control for more difficult times.

i guess its because im 18 almost 19 and i spent the last 4 years with 1 girl its hard to snap into the reality

but i know mgtow is truth

its just i dont wanna blame it on me being young

but im sure that has a part to do with it

Do you have a hobby?

I found it easier focusing on hobbies that made me happy

Much easier

exercise/anime/videogames

im not sure how to word it but i see mgtow also has a sort of shaming with some

as in

im like a weaker one

and they tend to call them blue pill simps

intead of trying to encourage

but slowly ill get there into a mgtow monk

You just need to take the steps towards self actualizing, find the meaning in your life besides women

that right there

i have no problem giving up women

but its the

finding something new

is the issue

Yeah it's hard

And no one else can tell you what it is

like yeah they cant say what it is