but its hard

What part

i was in a 4 yr relationship and it ended

and i found mgtow

but its like

i see girls

and they talk to me and its like

i know how it will end

but my instincts

say otherwise

so i guess with time

it will get easier

Mgtow isn't always monk mode

You gotta do what works for you

True. @Whats gay anymore

Just no marriage no simping and no living together

for me its monk mode because for me if i end up smashing i

catch feelings

Oof rough

It's not against the philosophy to get some or learn self control for more difficult times.

i guess its because im 18 almost 19 and i spent the last 4 years with 1 girl its hard to snap into the reality

but i know mgtow is truth

its just i dont wanna blame it on me being young

but im sure that has a part to do with it

Do you have a hobby?

I found it easier focusing on hobbies that made me happy

Much easier

exercise/anime/videogames

im not sure how to word it but i see mgtow also has a sort of shaming with some

as in

im like a weaker one

and they tend to call them blue pill simps

intead of trying to encourage

but slowly ill get there into a mgtow monk

You just need to take the steps towards self actualizing, find the meaning in your life besides women

that right there

i have no problem giving up women

but its the

finding something new

is the issue

Yeah it's hard