Message from @PhoenixK7PB
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wich i consider a lot
You touched a penis 12 times a week that *gay*
almost any veteran nofaper talks about that boost
veteran i mean 100 days +++
what sucks is, the range is only a day or two
I went for 4 months and was never more depressed in my life
but did you change something? or you was depressed cuz your life sucks, and the porn is just a "mask" of that reality, and your hole life depends on porn.
It was basic training for the army so I was in top physical form and ate healthier than most people on a diet
if you realise that your life sucks, you will be depressed, but then you have to turn that in some sort of motivation and do something that turn the table for you.
so your fapping was a gym for you?
Came home and rubbed one out and the depression was gone
Nofap is literally not for some people
Didn't even use porn
well it changed my life so...
Porn is really a factor for the results
i recommend nofap and reboot, try for 1 or 2 weeks.
Reboot?
Stop watching porn for 90 days (original time)
I get tired of changing my underwear once a week in the middle of the night. I also get no benefits from nofap apart from time saved not fapping. Which I natrually don't do when I am busy doing other shit. I don't keep myself busy for 2 solid weeks at a time since I am not psychotic or in the army anymore, so nofap doesn't work for me either.
@Kragt same here I actually do try to lay off as much as possible but when it becomes distracting I just clear the pipes and move on I typically only do it a few times per week now
The wet dreans (or nightfall) really sucks, i agree. You can change your time to sleep (wake up 4AM, go to sleep 9/10PM), i done that and since my frist week (currently on 7 weeks) i never had any wet dreans any more, and i dont know why
@Reaper Pretty much, if I am fapping every day it is more a sign that I have too much spare time. If I don't have energy then it means I am probably not taking good care of my diet.
So instead of stopping fapping, drink a cup of coffee, shower, make sure I got some salad greens in the fridge and watch some practical engineering before forcing myself to study something.
@Kragt yes addressing overall energy levels is more important I think
The wet dreams slow down after a few months but after 6 months solid I was still having them every 2-3 weeks.
Now, if you do some type of sports, if you go to the gym, and if you waste more than 30 minutes a day fapping, just go on nofap brotha
since you started talking about coffe, did anyone here ever tried stacking?
I live in a big cosmopolitan city so even without porn I get flooded with spank material on television daily it does not seem likely I could stop completely until I move somewhere more rural
Shutdown your social media, turn off your TV and be a monk lol
@PhoenixK7PB I fap 3-4 times a week and I only take 1-5 mins
well, just dont be addicted to it
@PhoenixK7PB I'm on the older side, I have been there.. it was unpleasant
Occum's razor.
Take whatever advice that includes + nofap and try it without nofap.
Too much time fapping is a sign of another problem of which nofap is a possible solution but that is like saying a fever, a cold, and a sinus infection are all cured by hot tea with lemon and honey.
i used to spend a lot of precious time on it, so i just turn the switch off
Yes all addictions are negatives
all the major changes are in your head, same thing with porn
@PhoenixK7PB I will give you that I try to fap no porn as much as possible, it is mental cocaine
try to stay away from porn for 2 weeks... see if you can
I actually rarely watch porn, it's really over stimulating, I use my imagination usually, also it's easier to one and done when there's no external stimulant
agree, usually when i relapse (and i relapse a lot) i do it whitout porn too
@PhoenixK7PB I see, so you start having changes after about a week. I'll try 3 days first, see how it goes.
Thanks for the info mate!