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@ToastMcGhost my accent is Canadian the least sex of all accents

Send me the number tho

@EmptyEagle Yeah, i notice that myself except i don't read many self-help books. I'm actually thinking of cutting off my therapist cause it's basically just a visit with a friend more or less. I don't know if my therapist is eccentric, lazy, has a lot of faith in me or what. But we tend to just talk about politics and the state of affairs in our country, state, county etc. THere's little psychoanalysis.

Just say "ey" and apologize for everything

I dunno german is uniquely unsexy

I dont have the french accent .... but i got the lame US one, UK is sexy

im a sucker for the canadian accent

@ToastMcGhost that's the problem everyone knows our shtyk

german isnt as bad as you think

Nobody thinks they have an accent. Everyone sounds "normal" to themselves and everyone else has the accent

@Whats gay anymore we don't want you!!

@ToastMcGhost Well said and i find that admirable of you. There's many out there that can't say the same.

I had a Japanese guy online tell me he wishes he had my accent and I was like "I don't have one"

It's all about self respect Ginger

@ToastMcGhostim not a huge believer in therapy but I know it's the right thing for some ppl, I'm happy to hear it helped

Yeah, i think it's safe to say that the persons mentioned had little self-respect.

the 1st and most important advantage to therapy is that you accept you have a problem 😃

I always tell people if it wasn't for meds or therapy I wouldn't be here. Then they still tell me meds and therapy are stupid. I'm used to it

Yeah i agree it doesn't work for a lot of people. Especially men with how the system caters to females and childrens way of thinking and doing things.

You have to be 100% honest with them and can't hold anything back or you're wasting their time and yours

@GingerSnaps Similar situation. He really only gives me advice I already know. But I can't leave him as I'm still under my parents and they think that it's helping. Honest I've done more to help myself talking with this "Misogynistic" group or whatever my parents called it and spending hours by myself mentally pulling myself apart to find what actually is causing all these problems.

I'm anti big pharma but my meds help me. I'm a man of many contradictions. Maybe i should work on that. lol

@Gaarak I agree I think the most constructive part is actually speaking about your issues out loud it puts them in a more accessible place for you to understand and then do something

I never had any luck with therapists, they always tried to put me on meds that I didn't need

We all lie, even to our selves, it s hard to be 100% honest with that 'fact'

im normally honest with myself just not many other people

@Phosis T'Kar sounds like you had a bad therapist. Mine would never force me on something I say no to

Most therapist will just give you pills, but either they will work or your going to truly understand what the song "Comfortably Numb" was about.

I did, absolutely there are good therapists out there, I just haven't dealt with any yet

You might be confusing therapists and psychiatrists. Therapists don't give meds

That was directed toward Eagle but it still stands

Pills sell man

I know the difference. But a Therapist has to sign you off to the psychiatrist at least in my state.

ahh, well I suspect I am, either way they tried to prescribe me ADHD meds after one session where they did most of the talking

Yeah that's a shitty therapist

people want lazy band aid solutions to problems, so pills numb you down so that you don't hurt

yup

exactly, and those pills cause long term damage after a while. I'm lucky I got off them after a year.

I think mental illness can be managed and a lot of them can be solved by putting in a ton of work and effort in fixing shit

@EmptyEagle I totally hear you about your parents calling mgtow a misogynistic group. My certified peer support specialist jokingly calls it the he man woman haters group or whatever that club from the little rascals is called. It kind of irks me because it's like she can't be bothered to understand where i'm coming from and how mgtow helps me simply because we're red-pilled to a lot of life but especially female nature. We don't simp for them so she has issues with it it's like. And i think it's a little unprofessional of her.