Message from @Eris

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2019-01-13 03:48:08 UTC  

"let it slide" implies you were mad

2019-01-13 03:48:09 UTC  

i didnt like it

2019-01-13 03:48:24 UTC  

are you going to argue grammar and the english langauge now

2019-01-13 03:48:28 UTC  

you need to understand that if i don't find your reason for not liking something valid then i don't care that you don't like it

2019-01-13 03:48:36 UTC  

I need a reason to care about your feelings

2019-01-13 03:48:41 UTC  

if they are unreasonable, I don't give a shit

2019-01-13 03:48:43 UTC  

deal with them

2019-01-13 03:49:01 UTC  

thats a terriblle way to deal with your friends dude

2019-01-13 03:49:05 UTC  

If I make you feel bad and it's valid and I see that I'm at fault, I care

2019-01-13 03:49:13 UTC  

If you make yourself feel bad for illegitimate reasons, I don't care

2019-01-13 03:49:15 UTC  

half the time when someone vents to me i find the thing they vent about to not be a big deal

2019-01-13 03:49:22 UTC  

but i dont fuking tell them that

2019-01-13 03:49:25 UTC  

Yeah, never vent to me.

2019-01-13 03:49:30 UTC  

I will tell you your feelings are invalid.

2019-01-13 03:49:41 UTC  

that just makes you an asshole

2019-01-13 03:49:45 UTC  

Never compromise the truth under any circumstances

2019-01-13 03:49:48 UTC  

doing so makes you an asshole

2019-01-13 03:49:50 UTC  

Tough love is a thing

2019-01-13 03:49:52 UTC  

^

2019-01-13 03:49:58 UTC  

not when someones venting

2019-01-13 03:49:59 UTC  

I expect you to be able to handle it

2019-01-13 03:50:02 UTC  

to me that's what friendship is

2019-01-13 03:50:10 UTC  

an expectation of strength

2019-01-13 03:50:14 UTC  

Idk ive helped a friend or two thru situations with tough love

2019-01-13 03:50:29 UTC  

You're a big boy I expect you to be able to handle it

2019-01-13 03:50:34 UTC  

because i respect you

2019-01-13 03:50:35 UTC  

tough love is good sometimes when the person NEEDS to be told something

2019-01-13 03:50:42 UTC  

you always need to be told the truth

2019-01-13 03:50:43 UTC  

always

2019-01-13 03:50:47 UTC  

but did you NEED to tell me that im a robot

2019-01-13 03:50:52 UTC  

and that im mentally unstable

2019-01-13 03:50:52 UTC  

I do if I think you might be

2019-01-13 03:51:01 UTC  

don't I?

2019-01-13 03:51:07 UTC  

no

2019-01-13 03:51:14 UTC  

what

2019-01-13 03:51:22 UTC  

having the expectation that you can talk whatever shit you want and that nobody will get mad or go off on you is foolish

2019-01-13 03:51:30 UTC  

"shit"

2019-01-13 03:51:33 UTC  

did you even consider the fact that i wasnt even looking for advice

2019-01-13 03:51:40 UTC  

No

2019-01-13 03:51:41 UTC  

i didnt want your two cents eris

2019-01-13 03:51:45 UTC  

That's bad