deal with them

thats a terriblle way to deal with your friends dude

If I make you feel bad and it's valid and I see that I'm at fault, I care

If you make yourself feel bad for illegitimate reasons, I don't care

half the time when someone vents to me i find the thing they vent about to not be a big deal

but i dont fuking tell them that

Yeah, never vent to me.

I will tell you your feelings are invalid.

that just makes you an asshole

Never compromise the truth under any circumstances

doing so makes you an asshole

Tough love is a thing

^

not when someones venting

I expect you to be able to handle it

to me that's what friendship is

an expectation of strength

Idk ive helped a friend or two thru situations with tough love

You're a big boy I expect you to be able to handle it

because i respect you

tough love is good sometimes when the person NEEDS to be told something

you always need to be told the truth

always

but did you NEED to tell me that im a robot

and that im mentally unstable

I do if I think you might be

don't I?

no

what

having the expectation that you can talk whatever shit you want and that nobody will get mad or go off on you is foolish

"shit"

did you even consider the fact that i wasnt even looking for advice

No

i didnt want your two cents eris

That's bad

you should want everyone's two cents

Eris' way of showing care is something you can't handle. Thats just how it is.
Tough love and tough truths are difficult for some people to handle.

^

bro you cant handle someone talking shit to your face in the name of advice

My definition of caring is different than yours

If you vent to someone expect them to give you their opinion?