I'm on the slim side and I cook at home 6 nights a week so I feel I'm doing alright

muscle tone appeals to the ladies

beta

it doesnt matter what u think dizzy, its what the women think

Good core musculature is better than looking good for show... If it is healthy and you have the energy go for competitive sports like tennis even

@dizzy a partner is a friend you worry about and never get bored of being around

that's succinct and sweet

Not all women like muscle toned guys

Just like not all men like thin women

yeah, some like size over tone

But no one likes a potato shaped person

those people are what we call, niggerfaggots

there is no reason not to go to the gym, just go.

@Bones what nigerian bundles of sticks have anything to with this conversation, i don't know...

I'm looking for a woman who cares more about my capabilities and character than my appearance, so while I could take measures to improve my general attractiveness I don't feel it's really necessary for me to be happy and find a mate

false

u need looks to lure them in and then the personality comes after

^don't listen

"Lure them in" they aren't a fucking fish

if you're starting from neckbeard couch potato then yes, you do need to reach some sort of baseline attractiveness

its a tied and true method for as long as our species has been alive...

they pretty much are fish

I think once you meet the basic threshold of don't be a whale, get a nice haircut, dress like you care and take showers you can do fine

To be honest for a second: This is actual advice! Women pay a lot of attention to your hygiene.

Seen a lot of perfectly decent looking guys calling themselves incels

Don't swear/curse in every sentence either, you'd be surprised how offputting that is for women

So take a shower and trim your nails

swearing and cursing is just a sign of low iq

Wash your foreskin thoroughly too

And scrotum

Wash you Penis Bucko 🦞

@numbSKULLery_8f4812 yes. That's the first thing women notice in a mate<:pepelaugh:544857300179877898>

yeah they don't want to smell gym socks while they are inspecting your scrotum...

If she likes cheese doritos, then don't wash your foreskin for a few days

But yes and if you're planning to have sex don't wear your lucky undies you've had since you were 16

@dizzy i like my small soldiers y fronts though...

A MAN HAS FALLEN IN TO THE RIVER AT LEGO CITY!

if ur planning on having sex, just go and rape something, ez