been trying for like 7 years

Longterm

how old are you now

20s?

21

I'm also a bit put off by the idea in general because I had an ex who was baby obsessed in my later teens

And smothered me to shit with it

I knew a few guys that had children that said to me things like it is over rated

Baby names in detail, and she was crazy that I stuck my dick in

So I'm a bit put off by kids overall

I always said if I have children, I will have to have five or more

because that way they raise each other

I want to give that mentoring experience to a kid one day but I'd be happy as an uncle first

Ya get

plus then the wife would have to stay at home with that many children

i could never do that one child, both working, struggling to get by shit

just today I saw a black guy with four children, looked fresh off the boat, at coop couldn't even pay for something

no doubt in council house

sounds vaguely racist

you said "black guy"

I am good at that

you should resign

I think I was just surprised to see a black guy being a father

Clearly an immigrant then

Immigrants are a lot of things but rarely do they ditch family

Remember the absentee father issue was a welfare state and model cities fuckup

Not a race fuckup. Just so happened that's who got effected by it most

My brown Uber driver kept asking me my name until I said it with mother tongue accent

?

calling it a welfare state and model cities fuckup is an over-generalisation

I know but what do you expect from a leaf

the sexual revolution, contraception, and women in the workplace are equally culpable

Giving a shit??

globalisation and the crushing of wages compared to living costs, for example

Ordered one and they sometimes ask what's your name

Here have my dog

He is a lazy fuck his name is Charlie

So I said it and he kept repeating the question until I said like a russian