Message from @King Canuck
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better than nothing i guess
I don't plan on kids anytime soon for many reasons but if my sister has any I'll be the uncle who visits often for sure. I feel better in that kind of role personally.
my sister is struggling to have a child
she is now late 30s
Mostly I never learned how to take care of MYSELF longerm so I have learning to do before I consider Parenthood you feel
been trying for like 7 years
Longterm
how old are you now
20s?
21
I'm also a bit put off by the idea in general because I had an ex who was baby obsessed in my later teens
And smothered me to shit with it
I knew a few guys that had children that said to me things like it is over rated
Baby names in detail, and she was crazy that I stuck my dick in
So I'm a bit put off by kids overall
I always said if I have children, I will have to have five or more
because that way they raise each other
I want to give that mentoring experience to a kid one day but I'd be happy as an uncle first
plus then the wife would have to stay at home with that many children
i could never do that one child, both working, struggling to get by shit
just today I saw a black guy with four children, looked fresh off the boat, at coop couldn't even pay for something
no doubt in council house
sounds vaguely racist
you said "black guy"
I am good at that
you should resign
I think I was just surprised to see a black guy being a father
Clearly an immigrant then
Immigrants are a lot of things but rarely do they ditch family
Remember the absentee father issue was a welfare state and model cities fuckup
Not a race fuckup. Just so happened that's who got effected by it most
My brown Uber driver kept asking me my name until I said it with mother tongue accent
?
calling it a welfare state and model cities fuckup is an over-generalisation
I know but what do you expect from a leaf
the sexual revolution, contraception, and women in the workplace are equally culpable
Giving a shit??