@NotDarkMagician a way out of that is to find some company that can invite her on a work/study visa

Asian parents

good iDeer uksio

yes. we did the whole application together. saved up more than enough money. gave my full name and address. where we were going how much it was going to cost. proved we have savings well in excess of it. I've read her rejection letter

she is not lying to me

@svarozhyc Yeah, fair point, some of these ladies will play a dude way hard

gambling with international prospects gets sketchy af.

things we do for love, yeesh

yeah considering im just a rando who only happens to be going through naturalisation i dunno too much about different ways of achieving it

i'd ask a sol or summet

Having a company invite her on a work visa is the most solid variant of all

yep

Study visa can also be, but that is not as solid

yeah seems unlikely doesn't it 😦

Study visa can lead to a work visa tho

she's not really an academic *

That typo <:pepelaugh:544857300179877898>

Too freudian

don't get pregnant either

not for a long while

the plan was basically for her to take care of children and the home. shes not really the modern career woman type

I wouldn't trust a wahmen to be a housewife unless I have known her for a really long time

Same

Most likely, she's just asking for a free ride

if she was after a free ride she wouldn't date me

im incredibly frugal

Once she takes control of your household finances, you won't be anymore

> takes control of my household finaces

the best advice I've been given about this was from my friend's father

as his height made around £10,000,000 / year.
he gave his wife an allowance of 10k / month to spend on shit

Men live frugally until they live with a wahmen

Then suddenly you have a lot of useless shit popping up in your house

^ 1000x this

if we scale that down me making 100k ish and that'd be her allowance

aka she gets 100 a month to spend on shit

the shit budget is different from the food budget and stuff ovbiously

the shit budget is just for shit

if she wants to buy expensive shit then she will have to save up money out of the shit budget

If she's in the house all the time it'll go to wine

no

we don't drink