Message from @Hommedaction
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yes. we did the whole application together. saved up more than enough money. gave my full name and address. where we were going how much it was going to cost. proved we have savings well in excess of it. I've read her rejection letter
she is not lying to me
@svarozhyc Yeah, fair point, some of these ladies will play a dude way hard
gambling with international prospects gets sketchy af.
things we do for love, yeesh
yeah considering im just a rando who only happens to be going through naturalisation i dunno too much about different ways of achieving it
i'd ask a sol or summet
Having a company invite her on a work visa is the most solid variant of all
yep
Study visa can also be, but that is not as solid
yeah seems unlikely doesn't it 😦
Study visa can lead to a work visa tho
she's not really an academic *
That typo <:pepelaugh:544857300179877898>
Too freudian
don't get pregnant either
not for a long while
the plan was basically for her to take care of children and the home. shes not really the modern career woman type
I wouldn't trust a wahmen to be a housewife unless I have known her for a really long time
Same
if she was after a free ride she wouldn't date me
im incredibly frugal
Once she takes control of your household finances, you won't be anymore
> takes control of my household finaces
the best advice I've been given about this was from my friend's father
as his height made around £10,000,000 / year.
he gave his wife an allowance of 10k / month to spend on shit
Men live frugally until they live with a wahmen
Then suddenly you have a lot of useless shit popping up in your house
^ 1000x this
if we scale that down me making 100k ish and that'd be her allowance
aka she gets 100 a month to spend on shit
the shit budget is different from the food budget and stuff ovbiously
the shit budget is just for shit
if she wants to buy expensive shit then she will have to save up money out of the shit budget
If she's in the house all the time it'll go to wine
no
we don't drink
also asian so when she does very occasionally drink one glass and she's falling asleep
psh, imagine not being alcoholic tsk tsk.
when we were in Austria she had a beer and a shot and I had to carry her back to bed.