What’s the thing called when you talk about something so much that it actually starts to happen?

There’s gotta be a word for it

it shit like that that makes all men follow the mike pence rule in work life

confirmation bias

or whatever

Was at my best mates birthday party, I fancied having a chat so I spoke to this woman and went with her to the bar, which she took to be stalking, so she went to my friend and told him to tell me to back off

self-fufilling

self fulfilling works too

Self-fulfilling prophecy yeah

how fucking entitled do you have to be to assume that everyone that speaks to you has sexual intentions and anyone that follows you is stalking you

Most women I've spoken to are fine, happy to have the conversation, but it has a really positive effect if they know you're gay.

I solve this by not talking to anyone unless absolutely necessary

lel

i hate going to the hairdresser

I just do it anyway, then respond to what happens. I need conversation with adults or Im too isolated. But I am fond of solitude too, need plenty of me time

I don't give a fuck about your nephew, I don't give a shit where you went on holiday last summer

just cut my hair, take my money and leave me the fuck alone

Haha I start conversations about politics and philosophy with random strangers

Only had a couple of unpleasant experiences, offending someone haha

if i go to a hairdresser and they speak its fine, atleast it tells me they not some NPC thing

One woman once went nuts at me because she believed everybody deserves the same wage, and I said she was batshit if she thought a hospital janitor should get the same as a doctor, which she actually believed.

why will anyone become a doctor them. if I can get the same pay for doing some lazy ass job

Yeah, you don't need like a decade or more of training to use a mop and bucket

Hilariously, she was a chiropodist

It was at the Catholic Irish wake of my friends dad's funeral. She'd given me the lift from the church to the venue in her car. I got a taxi back home XP.

maybe for the best 😛

Hahaha indeed

obviously this was based on her own grievances

her, a foot doctor, not making the same money as a cardiothoracic surgeon

Well it's more to do with her having a lot of empathy, she felt that minimum wage workers work very hard and deserved more, but her compassion made her believe something foolish that would ruin society. Not realising that without the ability to rise above our beginnings the incentive to try is decimated

I used to be a leftist myself

Grew out of it when I turned 30 and read Thomas Sowell

ughhh every time I sit down to do something I get given 3 more things to do

just let me finish one fuckin job pls

did have a female co-worker complain that she was payed less as an 19y part time entry level clerk vs full time shift manager of several years

Nuts isn't it

sexism!!! <:NPC:500042735617703967>

my friend had a similar experience, he's a warehouse worker for Tesco and there were checkout girls crying that they get paid less for "the same work"

apparently "working at Tesco" is an all encompassing job title and everyone should be paid the same lol

I get yelled at online more by male feminists than female ones. A guy I'd known for years said I was a sexist because I didn't agree that tesco shop workers should get the same pay as warehouse workers who do all the heavy lifting.

come to the warehouse and stock for a few hours and see how same the work truly is