so I'll stay in my village, where the people are normal, and I also get the free healthcare from the overall country that that village is in

And it's one of those cases where, it is actually too late to change anything, so how do you explain that? Sorry I'm being monrose. I'm... I haven't had a "win" in a long time and it's wearing me down.

6yo God Daughter has been ignoring her Mother. I go over and we go on a 'Date' for Ice Cream, Milkshake and a have chat

This is the Broo Method

Has to be face to face is the point. Older ones like 17yo that can be phonecall about smaller things but big things it's a trip to Pub, a meal etc

I work with people getting out of the Mental Hospital, btw. So its sort of my job to help people put their lives back together after their minds fell apart. I get it that this job is tough, but I used to feel like, "Hey. There are people who'd be dead if you hadn't been there." and that used to be enough. Now I feel like I'm trying to empty the ocean with a spoon. Like every person I help, it just doesn't matter because 50 take their place.

jesus

And OH DEAR GOD NO! Sorry, but I can't risk meeting these children face to face. I'll get charged with being a pedophile. Best to keep it anonymous.

Wanna hear true insanity?

There was a client, schizophrenic, she has the right to stop taking her meds. We can't force them. However, eventually you will get kicked out of the program.

She stopped. Not my client, but she's in the program. One day she calls the cops on me, out of the blue. I get suspended. Lose a week of pay. I finally get interviewed. I have an alibi, so it's cleared up, sort of. I eventually get back to work. Guess what crime she accused me of?

Give up? I am the first man charged with being a solo gang rapist. Apparently, there were more then one of me, and all of me gang raped her. With no physical evidence. The did the rape kit. There was no evidence she'd even had sex. And yet, I still got charged and suspended.

And here's the kicker. A few months ago, a cop called me up and started asking odd ball questions, eventually asking for an alibi for such and such a date. Apparently, they keep a list of "accused but not convicted" and someone had given a description of "white male in their 40's". This is going to follow me the rest of my life.

I used to run a meal for the homeless and "I understand empty the ocean with a spoon"

My advice would be focus on the sucesses. My biggest one was getting a woman off Heroin

Not easy

it's 5 am and I'm way too drunk and bitter. Sorry for laying this bullshit on everyone.

No worries, gotta vent

Nah it's fine, you have to talk it off sometimes or it eats you up inside

There are people still out there I couldn't help in 4 years but I could help her and that's a win <:covfefe:440543908846632980>

but daily life is all DRAWS

nothing changes

Oh yeah, the new heroin-fentanyl is pure morality bleach.

That stuff is physically addictive on the first shot.

Sometimes we would get a LOSS eg: someone jumped off a bridge

but sometimes you get a WIN

I would tell people that if life was fair, that would suck.

Imagine a world where every horrible thing that happened to you was your own damn fault.

People who ask for the world to be fair actually want the world to be unfair, but just in their favor.

I like a quote from StarTrek TNg where Picard said to little punk Wesley: "You can do as hard as you can, prepare as much as you want and still fail. That's no unfair ... that' just life"

Then I see these women screeching at Senator Flake about how allowing Kavanaugh to join the SCOTUS is "sending a message" to all women everywhere and how unfair it is and I just want to blow my brains out. I won't. My survival instinct is too high, but fuck me how can these people be so narcissistic? The more I watch that guy, the more I wish he was running for president, not the Supreme Court.

Yes the whole Kavanaugh thing is a farce.

I was once asked "How many people you fed today do you think were genuinely hungry?" (It was a short session only 70)

I said "10 but I can only get to those people if I feed everyone that comes through the door"

Shut up wesley

The sad thing is, I've seen Ford's testimony and I have seen that behavior before. Her manerisms. Rhe way she seems to keep reverting to a child like state. The nervous laughter and sudden mood changes. That woman wasn't just groped. She is displaying all the body language of someone who was molested by a family member for years.

And judging by the time period, we have the problem that between puberty and age 25 there is an enzyme that "cleans up" old memories in your head. And given the way Explicit memories are stored in the human mind, if she was trying to block out the memories, she could have lost the knowledge of the person who did it to her. However the index "file" that allows one to reconstruct past memories is almost always intact. Thus it's entirely possible everything that happened to her did indeed happen to her, but now, 36 years later, she's reindexed the original memory to include Kavanaugh.

Didn't they do hypnosis with her ? This would mess it even up more.

She clearly believes what she is saying, but the truth is, it doesn't matter. Her belief doesn't matter. What matters is can we determine the truth? All evidence points to she has reconstructed the memory and inserted Kavanaugh. She made the mistake of sending in a letter to the Democrats who leaked it. Now this poor woman who clearly needs help has been dragged through this horrifying proceedure for short term political gain. For no other reason then to delay a nomination a week.

Hypnosis creates Implicit memories which are always complete fabrications. Hypnosis is a bunk science. Sort of like lie detectors.

And that's why both are not allowed in a court as evidence

rightfuly

This woman has real problems and the Democrats don't care about her at all. She's just a tool and I am just sick. I used to think there could be some middle of the road. I always try to be reasonable. But dammit, this is just so gut wrenchingly bad I wanna puke.