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Without empathy, there'd never have been something like European Civ.
now theres a much better balance
you have to learn to say no..
I learned that on Oprah 😉
Empathy underlay our creation of high trust societies
if you dont look out for #1 nobody else will
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how old are you
nobody is going to say, oh you're so nice ill look out for you
your job is to take care of yourself
You're largely reacting to modernity
im 40
We're in an increasingly cut throat situation
yes
and str3tch called you young
or younger than him
so i had to change myself to adapt
🤔
where you work has something to do with it
i would have preferred not to change but that wasnt an option
I knew this guy is old
way different, people are assholes here
thing is
im from here
and so are you
yeah
I would kill myself if I was 40
wherever you go, there you are
these people being cut throat are not from here
well, to an extent
so many people talk shit about people behind their back, its like high school again
but it wasnt just job it was everything. i would care too much about keeping my wife happy, not push back enough
being less empathetic in general has been a godsend
everyone treats me much better and with more respect
careful don't forget who you are
who you are can change
yeah, sometimes i look back on the more innocent person i used to be
but he died
he was going to die no matter what
at least this way i lived
you need some hard edges to survive