kindness = weakness

Surgeons are higher in psychopathic traits

good

Than general pop

it was way too easy for people to take advantage of me

I kind of disagree

I feel that way a bit too @fuguer

you just need to apply it in snips

But it has to be measured

literally everyone took advantage of me being too nice, my boss, spouse, family

Without empathy, there'd never have been something like European Civ.

now theres a much better balance

you have to learn to say no..
I learned that on Oprah 😉

Empathy underlay our creation of high trust societies

if you dont look out for #1 nobody else will

fuguer

how old are you

nobody is going to say, oh you're so nice ill look out for you

your job is to take care of yourself

You're largely reacting to modernity

im 40

We're in an increasingly cut throat situation

yes

and str3tch called you young

or younger than him

so i had to change myself to adapt

🤔

where you work has something to do with it

i would have preferred not to change but that wasnt an option

I knew this guy is old

seriously duck, i worked tech in the midwest before

way different, people are assholes here

thing is

im from here

and so are you

yeah

I would kill myself if I was 40

wherever you go, there you are

these people being cut throat are not from here

well, to an extent

so many people talk shit about people behind their back, its like high school again