Message from @Naberius

Discord ID: 665412076591775754


2020-01-11 04:26:15 UTC  

True

2020-01-11 04:26:37 UTC  

In divorce courts, dad gets full custody, unless he's actually a detriment to his own kids.

2020-01-11 04:26:51 UTC  

No addicts deserve to be dads, and deadbeats are sperms donors.

2020-01-11 04:26:56 UTC  

East Germany dissolved and for what? They traded in a nation of no homelessness, 100% employment, public services for everyone, just so they could be poor people who eat mcdonalds and wear jeans and listen to rock music in the soulless modern Germany. That's the "beautiful capitalist freedom" for you.

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/634367565304561675/665411298821144586/east_germany_in_1970_2.jpg

2020-01-11 04:26:59 UTC  

@Str3tch It's the third force that's unbalanced things

2020-01-11 04:27:05 UTC  

yeah

2020-01-11 04:27:11 UTC  

Yeah we have to save ourselves

2020-01-11 04:27:11 UTC  

They've run women like a weapons system

2020-01-11 04:27:18 UTC  

And still prop them and feminism up

2020-01-11 04:27:19 UTC  

By men manly men

2020-01-11 04:27:30 UTC  

Not homosexual degenerates

2020-01-11 04:27:39 UTC  

history is written by the victors, dude

2020-01-11 04:27:51 UTC  

<:rambo:626456459835605014>

2020-01-11 04:28:08 UTC  

and when one side completely loses, they get changed, probably forever

2020-01-11 04:29:11 UTC  

Heard about a dad who tried to visit his daughter on his assigned day, wife barred him from seeing her, tried to shut the door on him, and he rightfully forced his way in, she sustained an injury, and he got a domestic violence charge, so now his daughter is basically begging not to be sent back to her mom, but the domestic violence charge on his rap sheet will forever prevent him from having full custody.

2020-01-11 04:29:19 UTC  

low iq fug is back

2020-01-11 04:29:38 UTC  

i like when mike and destiny agree

2020-01-11 04:29:39 UTC  

beta

2020-01-11 04:29:49 UTC  

women lie like crazy, sometimes

2020-01-11 04:29:52 UTC  

She literally fell, her own fault, but without witnesses, she can easily make it out like she was hit and everyone will beleive her.

2020-01-11 04:30:01 UTC  

i was watching that debate 10 minutes ago. finally had to shut it off

2020-01-11 04:30:21 UTC  

I think both women and men can be treacherous, but the only way women can aquire power or get what they want is through treachery.

2020-01-11 04:30:38 UTC  

Divorce should result in custody defaulting to the primary breadwinner, outside instances of criminally demonstrable abuse. Also, no child support outside these instances.

2020-01-11 04:30:46 UTC  

Men would never get away with treating other men the way women treat eachover.

2020-01-11 04:31:22 UTC  

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/634367565304561675/665412413075750932/tut-1-inspiration-picture.png

2020-01-11 04:32:52 UTC  

@Weaboo Kempeitaiyou've spat some truth tonight

2020-01-11 04:33:03 UTC  

@Miniature Menace Okay, fair.

2020-01-11 04:33:27 UTC  

Well, kinda

2020-01-11 04:34:03 UTC  

I think children need both a father and mother figure and 50/50 seems ideal provided that both parents are able to fulfil the child's basic needs.

2020-01-11 04:34:33 UTC  

50/50 outside specific circumstances is actually kind of fucked up

2020-01-11 04:35:13 UTC  

exes will often use their children to get back at each other, and 50/50 custody makes it very difficult to fulfill obligations when operating over vast geographic distances

2020-01-11 04:35:48 UTC  

Imo I think it best emulates their prior homelife and makes it harder for one parent to manipulate the child into hating the other.

2020-01-11 04:35:57 UTC  

But you have a point

2020-01-11 04:36:05 UTC  

the best case scenario with 50/50 is both parents still respect each other and are on good terms, and are willing to work together to raise their kids, but just can't endure being intimate anymore

2020-01-11 04:36:12 UTC  

but most instances aren't like that

2020-01-11 04:36:17 UTC  

even when they pretend to be

2020-01-11 04:36:28 UTC  

50/50 is seriously restrictive. And yes, it often depends on a productive relationship between divorcees.

2020-01-11 04:37:07 UTC  

repeal no fault divorce, and it will be clearer who can continue to raise children together, and who can't

2020-01-11 04:37:23 UTC  

The reality for many, perhaps most divorced fathers though, is that 50/50 custody is not really 5050 in practice. Shared custody in reality is full custody for her, since most of the time you're working to support the lifestyle she's accustomed to or whatever, and the rest of the time the power is entirely in her hands, regardless of what the court ordered. The damage of parental separation all by itself is often grave in terms of the relationship with your kid, plus the mother has complete power over visitation even if the court orders otherwise, and she often widens that divide.

2020-01-11 04:37:41 UTC  

it also would encourage people to enter into marriage with more deliberate consideration, if they know they can't get out of it easily

2020-01-11 04:38:15 UTC  

Because one isn't living it up on child support payments and alimony payments?