Well, your first will be the worst

Future ones you'd get over faster

I think the relationship with his ex was about a year

I got one movie to help with this.

The Godfather.

He only got over it when he met the current gf

That movie from me watching gave me a patch of new chest hair.

That’s not a good sign

Give's a man a pair.

I never watched it

Do it mate.

@Zemo what did you mean

Some based Knowledge.

The fact that he only got over his ex after he met his new gf. So unless the two of them end up tying the knot how’s he supposed to recover emotionally if things go south again?

Hm, that is a good question.

That’s what I’m worried about with him

He was recovering from her but he fully got over her when he met the current one

He wouldn’t admit it but he is very sensitive

Which is honestly at times kinda annoying

Hm.

Big agree. Sensitive men can't deal with banter

He can banter

Well he mustn't be that sensitive then

I’m afraid I can be too sensitive at times

But he was getting offended that I didn’t ask to hang out with him over the weekend when we would work 8 hours together and then hang out a few more hours on the weekend

Sounds clingy

If your current girl is the cure for your previous girl, ive often seen that then out bad

But it can work

dont think. just consume girl and get excited for next girl

I hope that consume part isn’t literal

A few weeks ago was his one year anniversary with his current gf so to celebrate they went to a tourist town in my state and stayed there for three nights at an upper end hotel the hotel itself was $350 a night

They split the bill but still this is just the hotel and not even all the other shit they bought

Doesn’t sound like the most responsible chap

I won’t pretend like I know what to do here other than to tell him to grow a pair

there's pretty much nothing you can do

That’s honestly the conclusion I came to

I gave him shit over his “honeymoon but not married” thing but he thought it was still worth it for some reason

He has admitted to knowing he is a clingy person but he hardly changes he is also not in a good position because his dad passed about a year and a half ago and he was the main income to the home he is at a warehouse making $11 or $12 an hour his money works a similar job somewhere else but is making about $10 or $11 an hour the younger brother is severely autistic and the most complicated job he could probably have in his life is be a cashier

On top of all of this he keeps pissing away money like nothing he eats out like every other day and got into vaping only because he wanted to “fit in” to our group which has sense fallen apart and he is now addicted to it now because he wanted to “fit in” and he also smokes weed on a semi regular basis which also costs money and he also has a number of medical issues so his medical bills are higher than average I swear it’s like watching a car crash in slow motion

Sorry about the fucking rambling but I had to get it off my chest

eating out too much is a common problem