Hm.

Big agree. Sensitive men can't deal with banter

He can banter

Well he mustn't be that sensitive then

I’m afraid I can be too sensitive at times

But he was getting offended that I didn’t ask to hang out with him over the weekend when we would work 8 hours together and then hang out a few more hours on the weekend

Sounds clingy

If your current girl is the cure for your previous girl, ive often seen that then out bad

But it can work

dont think. just consume girl and get excited for next girl

I hope that consume part isn’t literal

A few weeks ago was his one year anniversary with his current gf so to celebrate they went to a tourist town in my state and stayed there for three nights at an upper end hotel the hotel itself was $350 a night

They split the bill but still this is just the hotel and not even all the other shit they bought

Doesn’t sound like the most responsible chap

I won’t pretend like I know what to do here other than to tell him to grow a pair

there's pretty much nothing you can do

That’s honestly the conclusion I came to

I gave him shit over his “honeymoon but not married” thing but he thought it was still worth it for some reason

He has admitted to knowing he is a clingy person but he hardly changes he is also not in a good position because his dad passed about a year and a half ago and he was the main income to the home he is at a warehouse making $11 or $12 an hour his money works a similar job somewhere else but is making about $10 or $11 an hour the younger brother is severely autistic and the most complicated job he could probably have in his life is be a cashier

On top of all of this he keeps pissing away money like nothing he eats out like every other day and got into vaping only because he wanted to “fit in” to our group which has sense fallen apart and he is now addicted to it now because he wanted to “fit in” and he also smokes weed on a semi regular basis which also costs money and he also has a number of medical issues so his medical bills are higher than average I swear it’s like watching a car crash in slow motion

Sorry about the fucking rambling but I had to get it off my chest

eating out too much is a common problem

He eats out like every day or every other day

https://m.washingtontimes.com/news/2020/feb/4/disney-fines-calif-elementary-school-for-showing-t/

I really don't like sex before marriage

but casual sex is way worse

I agree

I define a THOT as a girl who has sex outside of a relationship

once again I don't like pre-marital sex but fucking random people is a lot worse

I have kind of accepted the reality that all friend groups eventually crash and burn

and you probably won't ever seen any of them again

Casual intercourse is simply degrading. It shows you don't have respect for yourself and handing your intimacy around like flyers.

So at my bible study

the priest explained that women would also fuck temple protistutes

If you make eye contact with a woman before marrying her, you have sinned

In this day and age not fucking around is an accomplishment on its own smh

that really depends. its only an accomplishment if women lust after you and you are attracted to them. If youre not sleeping around because youre unwanted thats a much more common and much different story.

Well yes but it shouldn't be an accomplishment to begin with

People who fuck around ought to be looked down upon, those who don't not given any special attention