He was close to her but she wasn’t close to him if that makes sense

Yeah my brother tends to rebound, I never do

Our friend group also began falling apart at around the same time as his break up

Which didn’t help

Yeah that sucks mate.

The only fix is don't be a pussy

Stefan Molyneux said of long term relationships that after a break up it takes about half the time of the relationship to recover emotionally. A 4 year relationship will take 2 years to recover.

Well, your first will be the worst

Future ones you'd get over faster

I think the relationship with his ex was about a year

I got one movie to help with this.

The Godfather.

He only got over it when he met the current gf

That movie from me watching gave me a patch of new chest hair.

That’s not a good sign

Give's a man a pair.

I never watched it

Do it mate.

@Zemo what did you mean

Some based Knowledge.

The fact that he only got over his ex after he met his new gf. So unless the two of them end up tying the knot how’s he supposed to recover emotionally if things go south again?

Hm, that is a good question.

That’s what I’m worried about with him

He was recovering from her but he fully got over her when he met the current one

He wouldn’t admit it but he is very sensitive

Which is honestly at times kinda annoying

Hm.

Big agree. Sensitive men can't deal with banter

He can banter

Well he mustn't be that sensitive then

I’m afraid I can be too sensitive at times

But he was getting offended that I didn’t ask to hang out with him over the weekend when we would work 8 hours together and then hang out a few more hours on the weekend

Sounds clingy

If your current girl is the cure for your previous girl, ive often seen that then out bad

But it can work

dont think. just consume girl and get excited for next girl

I hope that consume part isn’t literal

A few weeks ago was his one year anniversary with his current gf so to celebrate they went to a tourist town in my state and stayed there for three nights at an upper end hotel the hotel itself was $350 a night

They split the bill but still this is just the hotel and not even all the other shit they bought

Doesn’t sound like the most responsible chap

I won’t pretend like I know what to do here other than to tell him to grow a pair