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It's all about your relationship as you were approaching puberty. A distant father mixed with puberty hormones has a tendancy to cross wires between the longing for a father and the desires you begin to feel of the flesh. I'm starting to buy that's behind a lot of the faggotry epidemic tbh

My haphazard guess is anxious attachment plus distant dad.

@SUPER MALE VITALITY™ wouldn't that be for more of a father figure type male?

What vitality said.

But much earlier than that.

Not necessarily

Puberty isn't formative.

@SUPER MALE VITALITY™ I'm only attracted to more feminine guys

and personality

So, women?

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but thats the catch

like it ends there

Ree we're so close.

Because you're looking for a loving male presence, even as your body wants the feminine. If you feel nothing for women, it's because the urges have combined. It becomes a process of seperating those urges.

Like I just don't have that click in my mind for women

I do feel like im awfully close

but yet so far

Okay.

Then maybe it really is a matter of meeting the right one.

I mean you could also be right hahaha

I doubt it though

Then again my only experience with them is typically slags and cunts

You want women because that is natural, but you want someone to fill that father wound as well, that place where your dad failed to be a close father when you were young. Seek community here, find love among brothers, and start looking for a woman you can pin the rest on. It's not as good as celibacy in that kind of struggle, but if that's important to who you are you're meant to have a wife.

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@SUPER MALE VITALITY™ I am defeintly sure you are right for a lot of homosexuals

In that they are just projecting their need for a father figure

But mine is so unique I'm just not sure if it's the same

you're not unique lol

Rude.

plenty of people have absent fathers

I think everyone has a place like that where someone important failed in some way when they were young, everyone is broken, you're not alone in feeling how you feel. You're only special in that you understand that you're broken and are interested in finding healing, and that's what Christ is all about.

For example my only bf was very submissive, feminine, and was like my counterpart in most ways a girlfriend would be. So in that sense it's hard to see if that's me projecting some sort of father issues. Ya know?

maybe it was my mother

Overly caring mother?

no she was very distant

Bruh.

It's a synthesis, you want women clearly, you just have combined in your mind that longing for women with that longing for masculine love. So you seek feminine men.

hmm maybe you are right

so cursed this shit can happen