yeah, being a Prot is hands-down the bigger issue than no gf

BEGOME

Catholics are drownin in it

Wdym

*it*

how do I find a guy who isn't effeminate and weak? I feel like every guy I meet is a whiny cringey baby. am I looking in the wrong places?

Probably.

Where were you looking?

well my University

that's the only place I really go

Unis should be a mixed bag.

I know mine is.

my university is quite small

it's just

maybe it's stupid for me to be upset

but like idk it would just be nice to be asked out by someone who isn't a complete loser. I want someone who can lead a family not someone who wants me to do everything

Are you even a woman?

yes

All women are traps until proven otherwise, sorry

it's a safety measure

well that's quite rude but alright I'll get in vc with you if you wanna hear my voice or something

You cannot be serious.

I just wanted to ask for some advice.. the channel is literally called dating advice

Fair

What country? Just so I can get a general idea of what you're up against

I live in the USA

I'd recommend joining a gym and hoping to find someone who's not incredibly autistic.

It's a game of great risk. Lots of garbage on both sides. Even in our own community

I suggest looking around your local church, uni and maybe trying the gym thing. meanwhile you should engage with the community and find someone you like. Cast a wide net

I know quite a few couples that came to be and even got married through this community

Impressive.

what do you mean by this community?

Didn't know about that.

Well, the community I run on facebook and this one to a lesser extent.

oh I didn't know there was a facebook

is it open for anyone to join

Yea, but it's more or less mothballed due to incessant zuccing

Yes

https://www.facebook.com/groups/DefinitelynotREL/

It's still rather active

thank you. I'll take the advice you guys gave me