Message from @kaetaa

Discord ID: 439363291106639872


2018-04-27 08:55:29 UTC  

I liked them drones running around dear leader's car

2018-04-27 08:56:23 UTC  

@Sdeck37 what time?

2018-04-27 09:03:22 UTC  

Around 24:30 for example

2018-04-27 09:03:58 UTC  

It's reshown several times, as they didn't have much else

2018-04-27 09:43:35 UTC  

@porco your gf isn't Chinese

2018-04-27 09:43:59 UTC  

@porco comparing Chinese to Taiwanese isn't even worth the effort, trust me

2018-04-27 09:44:08 UTC  

But mainland China cheating culture is very alive

2018-04-27 09:44:35 UTC  

Most people are pressured into marriage really young because of their family's nagging (the day you graduate college: "why aren't you married yet?" )

2018-04-27 09:44:40 UTC  

Literally every day

2018-04-27 09:44:53 UTC  

So people get married when they don't want, usually to guys they don't really like

2018-04-27 09:45:11 UTC  

And most married couples don't live together, because the guys are off working somewhere

2018-04-27 09:45:47 UTC  

So people get lonely and they just cheat. Constantly. Some article said something like 80% of couples have at least one cheating partner

2018-04-27 09:46:09 UTC  

My co-workers have told me "I'd rather cheat than get a divorce"

2018-04-27 09:46:39 UTC  

Because cheating makes you lose face only if you're caught, but even if you do, it's far less than the backlash you'll get from a divorce

2018-04-27 09:47:13 UTC  

So stay with the husband/wife you don't love and just cheat to make yourself happy, is usually the general thought I got from my co-workers who are married

2018-04-27 09:47:27 UTC  

They all pretty much thought cheating is okay as long as they buy you stuff

2018-04-27 09:48:01 UTC  

@porco but again, this is mainland China. Nothing like Taiwan. Literally nothing

2018-04-27 09:49:16 UTC  

Basically Chinese people are forced to do stuff they don't want because they want their family to shut the fuck up

2018-04-27 09:49:32 UTC  

So they are forced to have kids when they don't want and just let the grandparents raise the kids usually

2018-04-27 09:51:52 UTC  

@kaetaa what's the reason behind parents wanting their kids to marry early?

2018-04-27 09:52:51 UTC  

Chinese people think no one will want their daughter if she's older than 25

2018-04-27 09:52:59 UTC  

Called leftover women cause they are now useless

2018-04-27 09:53:28 UTC  

But there are perks to marriage. Generally the man's family buys an apartment for the couple to live in (with the parents too, of course)

2018-04-27 09:53:52 UTC  

Home ownership and marriage go hand in hand. They literally refuse to marry unless they own a property

2018-04-27 09:54:34 UTC  

Basically Chinese people are always in a rush to do everything . When they knock on doors, they will continuously bang bang until someone answers (even if you say something like I'm coming)

2018-04-27 09:54:50 UTC  

Or if they try to open a door that's locked, they will keep pulling frantically and hard trying to open the door

2018-04-27 09:55:16 UTC  

So if you don't get married quick it will be too late, no one will want you

2018-04-27 09:55:21 UTC  

(in the parents eyes)

2018-04-27 09:55:40 UTC  

(this can all be fact checked online just so you guys know I'm not bullshitting)

2018-04-27 09:56:05 UTC  

And of course this can't be for every chink as different families have weird customs but this is a good generalization for a very large homogenous majority

2018-04-27 10:04:04 UTC  

Idk my gf's parents ask about our marriage plans occasionally

2018-04-27 10:04:08 UTC  

<:pepestressed:327933525124841482>

2018-04-27 10:04:53 UTC  

Also the living with the man's parents thing, I've seen that in Taiwan, too

2018-04-27 10:05:25 UTC  

Dude, don't bother comparing. Seriously . Obviously there's some overlap (like all cultures) but no

2018-04-27 10:05:59 UTC  

I don't know cheating culture in Taiwan. I'd guess it's similar to Western life

2018-04-27 10:10:57 UTC  

I hope not

2018-04-27 10:11:25 UTC  

At least for Italians, I don't know one marriage in my social circle that hasn't been cheated in

2018-04-27 10:29:00 UTC  

Well, from a USA perspective, italians are known for that haha

2018-04-27 10:29:06 UTC  

Is the stereotype true?

2018-04-27 10:32:36 UTC  

As I just confirmed, yes. We are truly a bunch of polygamous degenerates

2018-04-27 10:33:42 UTC  

This is why I usually don't suggest people to get an Italian gf