Message from @kaetaa
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I liked them drones running around dear leader's car
Around 24:30 for example
It's reshown several times, as they didn't have much else
@porco comparing Chinese to Taiwanese isn't even worth the effort, trust me
But mainland China cheating culture is very alive
Most people are pressured into marriage really young because of their family's nagging (the day you graduate college: "why aren't you married yet?" )
Literally every day
So people get married when they don't want, usually to guys they don't really like
And most married couples don't live together, because the guys are off working somewhere
So people get lonely and they just cheat. Constantly. Some article said something like 80% of couples have at least one cheating partner
My co-workers have told me "I'd rather cheat than get a divorce"
Because cheating makes you lose face only if you're caught, but even if you do, it's far less than the backlash you'll get from a divorce
So stay with the husband/wife you don't love and just cheat to make yourself happy, is usually the general thought I got from my co-workers who are married
They all pretty much thought cheating is okay as long as they buy you stuff
@porco but again, this is mainland China. Nothing like Taiwan. Literally nothing
Basically Chinese people are forced to do stuff they don't want because they want their family to shut the fuck up
So they are forced to have kids when they don't want and just let the grandparents raise the kids usually
@kaetaa what's the reason behind parents wanting their kids to marry early?
Called leftover women cause they are now useless
But there are perks to marriage. Generally the man's family buys an apartment for the couple to live in (with the parents too, of course)
Home ownership and marriage go hand in hand. They literally refuse to marry unless they own a property
Basically Chinese people are always in a rush to do everything . When they knock on doors, they will continuously bang bang until someone answers (even if you say something like I'm coming)
Or if they try to open a door that's locked, they will keep pulling frantically and hard trying to open the door
So if you don't get married quick it will be too late, no one will want you
(in the parents eyes)
(this can all be fact checked online just so you guys know I'm not bullshitting)
And of course this can't be for every chink as different families have weird customs but this is a good generalization for a very large homogenous majority
Idk my gf's parents ask about our marriage plans occasionally
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Also the living with the man's parents thing, I've seen that in Taiwan, too
Dude, don't bother comparing. Seriously . Obviously there's some overlap (like all cultures) but no
I don't know cheating culture in Taiwan. I'd guess it's similar to Western life
I hope not
At least for Italians, I don't know one marriage in my social circle that hasn't been cheated in
Well, from a USA perspective, italians are known for that haha
Is the stereotype true?
As I just confirmed, yes. We are truly a bunch of polygamous degenerates
This is why I usually don't suggest people to get an Italian gf