I thought more people would go after the Incels question heh

@SteelandSouls you..... watched it?

oohhhhh yeah

You can never go in prepared, you can never leave the same

South Park did an episode on that stuff. I think they played a blurred out surgery in the background

Yes they did

....yes they did

@SteelandSouls >Likely discomfort to the brink of heavy anxiety, yeah?

Yes yes yes

I've had panic attacks before so I can kind of figure it was along those lines

I'm borderline as well, so it made that worse as well

Like, people can call me a man and he/him all they want but if they use she will be way nicer to you

Like, it's just common curiosity

I’ve been having anxiety issues lately too. It’s weird. I’ve never had it happen before. It’s like I get overwhelmed making a simple decision. It’s annoying. I think it will stop when I start exercising.

You mean courtesy, yeah?

Yes lol

Close enough lol

I'm so sorry, I've been there

Lexapro and exercise helped me a lot

What’s lexapro?

Exercising didn't help me. It was mostly attributed to my own personal issues and my failure to do something about it

I think I’ll feel better if I lose 20 pounds and find a girlfriend. I think that’s stressing me out more than anything.

That would help. Stagnancy can be a major contributor to anxiety.

I agree. Practically all of my friends are married and have kids. I come from a big family too (5 younger siblings). I think I’m lonely and I feel like I don’t have as much purpose. Maybe I should dedicate myself to finding a wife or making myself more desirable than I already am.

I need to do the same.

I would say focusing on self improvement is never really a wasted venture

Yeah. I’m going to allow myself to get in rut, even though I’ll subconsciously hate myself for being lame. My goal for the next three years is to find a good woman, marry her, and then impregnate her.

In that order.

I've finally figured out how to beat my hatred of schedules

Gasp. How.

I made my phone annoying as hell

Alarms. Alarms everywhere

An alarm for waking up, an alarm for working out, an alarm for a midday stretch, an alarm for learning, an alarm for bed

So many alarms

Why allow yourself to get in a rut? You'll feel better if you're working at something while you grind wifefinding

It's good to have *something* go right

Complacency is comforting. That's why. It's like when you climb a plateau. You get up one of the regions and you just become satisfied you just made it up that

@Beemann complacency sneaks up on you. Then it sucks you down to apathy.

That only supports what I've said

Pick something you've wanted to do for a while and just go for it tbh

A lot of anxiety and sadness comes from expectation. If your mind is set that life has to be a certain way, you're only going to be down when it doesn't work out that way