She struggles to talk about it and gets annoyed when drs said this was her first pregnancy.

I am sorry to hear that. It's not something that's easily dealt with, or easy to even talk to another person about, the other parent is no exception

I'm not speaking for others when I say that either, but from experience

And wow, never thought I'd see the day I hear Ben drop the F bomb live on stream lel

@Buddha23Fett we had two miscarriages, the second was in the second trimester. It destroyed a bit if both of us both times.

Yeah. It’s hard.

You gotta wonder if Blonde is having some sort of issue since she went from excited and determined to quiet about pregnancy.

A very close friend of mine had her twins two weeks ago and the one twin was stillborn. I cried at work when I found out and went home early to comfort my sister who is also close friends with her and seven months pregnant

Wow

We are so thankful to have a healthy baby

Yes, please never ever joke about these things with women. You might get a stone cold bitch, but most of us don't like that at all

We aren't damsels to be coddled, but the topic is too ingrained

@Buddha23Fett even when Blonde was getting asked by live chat many months ago, she seemed pretty upset people kept asking her about it, and even said she wish she could just have her life and be able to choose when to talk about these things. I know the people are well intended, and she probably feels good about having fans that want her to be happy and have plenty of kids, but there's another side to that.

Yeah

You can tell she wants to be a mom so bad, even innocent comments just sting

Yeah, they shine a light on bad things in ways people don't realise

I think everyone wants what’s best for her and I’ll offer her my support in any way.

I was listening to Jim's recent stream and had to stop because all the super chats were miscarriage and stillborn jokes and I couldn't handle it

Yeah I can’t deal with those.

Honestly those people are no better than raging anti-life leftists

My ex died in my arms when she was 4 months pregnant and it devistated me. Finally having my son now helps with the pain of losing them, and so does my wife’s understanding of the situation.

I am truly sorry to hear that. I can't imagine how hard that must have been. And it's amazing that you now have the miracle of a healthy family. For what it's worth, I got your back and I'm sure others here feel the same way bro

@Buddha23Fett <3 you are a good man and I'm glad you are here with us

Slightly uplifting story on this topic:
One of my girlfriend's best friend's sister was pregnant and when she went in for a routine check they told her that she lost the baby.
A few agonising weeks later she had to go to the hospital because she had such pain in her stomach. They did a few tests and told her that she will be fine and that she just has some blood in her uterus, but not to worry, her baby was fine.
Turns out on the routine check they found blood in her uterus and just figured the baby was gone when in reality the baby was hidden in the blood. (At least that's the explanation they came up with)

She ended up being bed ridden for the rest of her pregnancy and have a very strict diet, but was holding a perfectly healthy baby in her arms at the end of it!

@Deleted User @RoadtoDawn thanks guys.

I still don’t know what I did to get a woman that treats me this good.

Whoa, Euro!
And you got someone looking out for you upstairs :)

@Euro looking for a green card I heard a story like that once. It was a writer for a blog I used to have as my home page, and he was talking about how he and his wife thought they'd miscarried, and I think they kept thinking that right up until she went into labor.

They might have found out before that though.

It was several years ago.

That's the reason women watch things like "I didn't know I was pregnant"

I’ve seen that show and I still can’t wrap my head around that concept. How could you not know if you were pregnant?

This is one of the reasons i've moved to be more pro-life. Things like miscarriages and still births wouldn't affect people so much if it was "just a clump of cells". It become clear to me because i just imagined one of these pro choice people consoling a woman who miscarried by saying "dont feel bad it was just a clump of cells".

I am STILL awake. HOOOOOOLY crap

On a far less sensitive note, we have a societal issue with a lot of women trying to get pregnant as their fertility is dropping, contributing to the number of women having difficulty conceiving.

@grant yay! When we next talk, I will bring you all the way over to pro life. LOL

@grant That’s because women are trying to have children at a later age.

Hopefully I can fix my connection soon.

@Salacious Swanky Cat my best guess is they think they have an alien inside them instead.

I saw an episode of that show. The women seemed to also have to be heavy set so they wouldn't notice the weight gain.