I got in an argument with a polyamorous person lol

was it about polyamory?

Yes. She said, Abbey not all of us are satisfied with sex once per month fam

She was taking a jab at me being a lesbian

Ie lesbian bed death

She said it was necessary if sex drives weren't 100% equal

I'm sure @Islamic Space Program is degen like that

You point out polyamory isn't just sex?

Yeah, there's no point arguing with these people

I got into that before a few weeks ago and I don't want to continue it again

@SpanishAbbey Its lonely being into diaper play Abbey, especially when I poopoo and peepee

I think poly is up to the individuals to ddo what they want. I can't help but think for some portion (not saying all) that it can lead to not addressing issues in the relationship or with the self.

Im pretty traditionalist when i think the point of a relationship is to find joy in serving others

I don't mind if the option is there but I dont think it works for most people

man, if she only has sex 1x a month she needs to find a better partner.

like, perhaps if you stop trying to find weirdos on craigslist to have group sex with you'd have sex more often.

or if you didn't start your dates as "You need to be ok with being a cuck" she'd get more.

@Blastil she was talking about me >_>

And it's not once a month! It's like every three weeks?

1.5/month then?

Exactly. We both have low drives. We're happy 🤷

ah, it's settled then. you both are chevy pickups stuck in 4-low

y'all will get down the road eventually

*But it's not lesbian bed death reeeee*

Still, if you have no problem ditching your partner to bang some whore because you value getting off more than your relationship, lmao go right ahead

imo anyone who claims theyre poly amorous is just someone who wants to fuck around and have the security of a relationship. that aint a sexuality, thats a choice

Exactly

and if theyre saying that it is a sexuality and that they chose it, then that brings the religious conservative idea of choosing to be gay

they might not want to open that can of worms again

She tried to calm without our current society, the natural state of man is 100% poly

Justify muh behavior!

well, the state of men is to fuck around, not exactly the case for women. biologically speaking

but thats men vs man as mankind

Well, I meant humans in general

i know, lol

Human nature is also murderous. That doesn't justify it

Not to mention the only societies it was present in, it was out of desperation or only the rich did it

Never common orgies

@SteelandSouls muh consenting adults

if one harkens back to early days to justify their behavior, then they forget that not all men got to breed. the ones with the best genetics got to. not exactly poly amorous. just one chad fucking all chicks haha

If primitives did it, it must be ok