Message from @Deleted User

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2019-10-15 00:13:17 UTC  

Thats idiotic, men want a family as much as anyone, they work because thats what they're good at.

2019-10-15 00:13:22 UTC  

So that the interruption of being pregnant and giving birth and raising a kid doesn't come _while_ you're working?

2019-10-15 00:13:32 UTC  

it just boggles my mind

2019-10-15 00:13:36 UTC  

Hahaha

2019-10-15 00:13:44 UTC  

I've told my spawn if she has plans of having kids to have them early

2019-10-15 00:13:51 UTC  

Plus you can do the motherhood thing when you have tons of energy and can stay up all night.

2019-10-15 00:13:59 UTC  

We (as in my family) will support her if/when it comes to that

2019-10-15 00:14:12 UTC  

But no shit outside of wedlock ~~like what daddy did~~

2019-10-15 00:14:12 UTC  

How did you end up a single dad?

2019-10-15 00:14:17 UTC  

cause I will murder the cunt who does

2019-10-15 00:14:36 UTC  

Uhhhh long story short is teenage pregnancy, gf wanted to abort, I said no, so she fucked off into the distance

2019-10-15 00:14:46 UTC  

left me with this bundle of miracles

2019-10-15 00:15:25 UTC  

Interesting!

2019-10-15 00:15:50 UTC  

Did you raise her with family support?

2019-10-15 00:16:29 UTC  

I think a good family support structure for raising a kid is massively important.

2019-10-15 00:16:30 UTC  

Yeah, mostly from my mother though

2019-10-15 00:16:38 UTC  

which I'll always be grateful for

2019-10-15 00:16:43 UTC  

Also, yeah

2019-10-15 00:16:51 UTC  

The problem I have with leftists is like

2019-10-15 00:16:55 UTC  

and this goes to welfare as well

2019-10-15 00:17:04 UTC  

The whole idea of "it takes a village" isn't necessarily wrong

2019-10-15 00:17:12 UTC  

It's just that they look at it and take all the wrong lessons from it

2019-10-15 00:17:30 UTC  

Back when that proposal was valid, the village was basically your extended family

2019-10-15 00:17:44 UTC  

You shared goals and values, and you knew what was expected of you

2019-10-15 00:18:02 UTC  

society is so isolated and broken atm that getting the village to raise a kid will just end up in a confused and lonely kid

2019-10-15 00:18:11 UTC  

end up a *

2019-10-15 00:18:17 UTC  

Yep

2019-10-15 00:18:23 UTC  

The ... uhhhh

2019-10-15 00:18:26 UTC  

Bully Early.

2019-10-15 00:18:26 UTC  

what's the word

2019-10-15 00:18:28 UTC  

And often.

2019-10-15 00:18:34 UTC  

Aloofness?

2019-10-15 00:18:36 UTC  

Impersonality?

2019-10-15 00:18:42 UTC  

Isolationism

2019-10-15 00:18:47 UTC  

I think nails it.

2019-10-15 00:18:48 UTC  

Yeah there you go, thank you

2019-10-15 00:19:06 UTC  

That sense of isolationism even when you have someone in front of you only breeds fucked up minds

2019-10-15 00:19:08 UTC  

my brother's got custody of his kids. he's currently living with them at our parents place, so they're pretty much being raised by them

2019-10-15 00:19:22 UTC  

their behavior regresses when they go visit their mother though

2019-10-15 00:19:29 UTC  

Ah =/

2019-10-15 00:19:46 UTC  

I moved out of my parents' place when I turned 18, so my spawn's been raised by mostly myself and my brother