We bent Each other over in weird ways...

Facts

I still have that candid pic @jecc13 snapped of us at Squids

I could believe you dudes went and did that lmao

Yeah. I shoulda...

@/K/owboy plenty of rallies, ahead

@Bodark Actual

Maybe I can try that

I meam filtering content could work

@thedarkness05 I dont have that sort of control of her media

And I'd rather her have the free thought and critical thinking to desypher for herself

@mcguyver123 as a man you're the metric for the thinking within your household

Women are programmed to assimilate to the strongest culture

But I cant portray that without causing "anxiety" or her starting a mild argument

No no, I get it. Just maybe do like bodark said and gradually bring her into some of the more red pilled stuff

And it's not like I'm not strong

@thedarkness05 I can try I guess

@mcguyver123 you are the oak

You are not swayed by mild arguments or anxiety

Do not even play that game

I'm not no but fuck if I keep going she shuts down and nothing is accomplished

That's fine

Not your problem

Not really. She needs to enjoy it and have it come naturally to her

Only way is gradual conditioning

Ye

It's a difficult spot. Her childish antics have brought us to no growth.

Am I to blame? To a point, yeah

But I feel like where I'm to blame is not noticing it sooner. Maybe I could have either found a solution or not spent 8 years with her then.

I just dont feel like a "companion" or "spouse" anymore. I have deeper conversations with my boys than my wife

How our women behave is always a direct reflection of who we are as leaders in our home.

And yes, I totally feel that and I often feel the same way about my wife, but the challenge is to make ourselves grow and become better as men through it so that we are fully outcome independent of our attachment to our women.

And btw I'm not shitting on you

Well I mean I usually have deeper convos with y'all too, but thats for different reasons. I think thays normal though

I take full responsibility for my wife developing some retarded behaviors, mostly because I failed to be a good leader

Only because shes incapable of conversation outside of meaningless shit. And I've tried talking about trivial stuff. But it's boring or small talk.

Independent. I'm already there. I told her if we divorced I'd be fine.

Good

Maybe that's it bodark. But I wonder if it's possible too we are just incapable and societal pressures have ruined aspects of marriage in general

That's an issue too

Do you have hobbies? Does she?

She feels and knows she can opera...
Fuck no, she sits around the house when shes not working

I've asked her to go to the gym, to hike, etc.