Message from @laurefinwë

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2019-06-13 04:47:32 UTC  

AWWWWW

2019-06-13 05:44:12 UTC  

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2019-06-13 05:44:21 UTC  

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2019-06-13 05:44:24 UTC  

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2019-06-13 05:46:37 UTC  

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2019-06-13 12:54:37 UTC  

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2019-06-13 12:54:45 UTC  

No wonder he's such a psycho

2019-06-13 14:23:22 UTC  

Chronically single women unironically believe this

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2019-06-13 14:24:50 UTC  

Women be like "I think that men should be more open about their emotions"
But they also be like "fuck off, I'm not your therapist lmao"

2019-06-13 14:27:12 UTC  

Being closed off emotionally and treating your girlfriend like a therapist are extremely related

2019-06-13 14:28:13 UTC  

Being with someone, you kinda have to rely upon each other in some way emotionally. That's what differentiates a relationship from a casual friendship.

2019-06-13 14:29:08 UTC  

I thought it was banging

2019-06-13 14:29:18 UTC  

Nah not nowadays

2019-06-13 14:30:24 UTC  

There have been times I'd let a partner know "that emotional trauma is out of my depth, you might need professional help for that" but these women often conflate serious damage with just being upset

2019-06-13 14:31:33 UTC  

Well, yeah, a partner can't and shouldn't be a substitute for an actual therapist

2019-06-13 14:31:46 UTC  

Bu it doesn't mean they shouldn't help at all

2019-06-13 14:36:33 UTC  

Yeah. So many people nowadays get overwhelmed over the silliest shit in a relationship, emotionally. Like oh they can't handle hearing about their partners childhood trauma. Like the girl on Reddit who broke up with her bf because she found out he'd been raped.

2019-06-13 14:36:57 UTC  

That's depressing

2019-06-13 14:37:01 UTC  

What a cunt

2019-06-13 14:37:06 UTC  

Also a bit different though

2019-06-13 14:37:19 UTC  

Real doomer hours in here.

2019-06-13 14:38:14 UTC  

Like, you'd probably view the story differently if it was a pattern of him constantly feeling dejected and carrying around residual trauma and asking her to validate him

2019-06-13 14:38:29 UTC  

I never took issue with my ex's mental illness, I've sorta made my peace with the concept that I'm very likely consigned to a fate of being with somebody mentally unwell.

2019-06-13 14:38:35 UTC  

Since it's 2019 and everybody's crazy now.

2019-06-13 14:39:00 UTC  

Because that becomes cyclical, and then a burden, which is a bit more legitimate than just having been told about a specific trauma

2019-06-13 14:39:36 UTC  

everyone constantly carries around residual trauma

2019-06-13 14:39:38 UTC  

Apparently they'd been together a while and he opened up to her about it

2019-06-13 14:39:38 UTC  

its nothing new

2019-06-13 14:39:41 UTC  

You gotta get on that "be there for them, but don't treat them like a baby" thing.

2019-06-13 14:39:58 UTC  

It's one of those AITA posts I think

2019-06-13 14:40:54 UTC  

I've only broken up with one other person because he used his trauma to hurt others. Like threatening suicide when I tried to leave him.

2019-06-13 14:41:01 UTC  

Right, so she found out he'd been raped, couldn't handle it, broke up with him

2019-06-13 14:41:14 UTC  

She said it emasculates him to her

2019-06-13 14:41:19 UTC  

My friend had an ex like Pam.

2019-06-13 14:41:40 UTC  

Sadly it's a common story. When I tell other girls they're like oh yeah I had an ex like that