Message from @laurefinwë
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No wonder he's such a psycho
Chronically single women unironically believe this
Women be like "I think that men should be more open about their emotions"
But they also be like "fuck off, I'm not your therapist lmao"
Being closed off emotionally and treating your girlfriend like a therapist are extremely related
Being with someone, you kinda have to rely upon each other in some way emotionally. That's what differentiates a relationship from a casual friendship.
I thought it was banging
Nah not nowadays
There have been times I'd let a partner know "that emotional trauma is out of my depth, you might need professional help for that" but these women often conflate serious damage with just being upset
Bu it doesn't mean they shouldn't help at all
Yeah. So many people nowadays get overwhelmed over the silliest shit in a relationship, emotionally. Like oh they can't handle hearing about their partners childhood trauma. Like the girl on Reddit who broke up with her bf because she found out he'd been raped.
That's depressing
What a cunt
Also a bit different though
Real doomer hours in here.
Like, you'd probably view the story differently if it was a pattern of him constantly feeling dejected and carrying around residual trauma and asking her to validate him
I never took issue with my ex's mental illness, I've sorta made my peace with the concept that I'm very likely consigned to a fate of being with somebody mentally unwell.
Since it's 2019 and everybody's crazy now.
Because that becomes cyclical, and then a burden, which is a bit more legitimate than just having been told about a specific trauma
everyone constantly carries around residual trauma
Apparently they'd been together a while and he opened up to her about it
its nothing new
You gotta get on that "be there for them, but don't treat them like a baby" thing.
It's one of those AITA posts I think
I've only broken up with one other person because he used his trauma to hurt others. Like threatening suicide when I tried to leave him.
Right, so she found out he'd been raped, couldn't handle it, broke up with him
She said it emasculates him to her
My friend had an ex like Pam.
Sadly it's a common story. When I tell other girls they're like oh yeah I had an ex like that