Then her coping mechanisms are kinda wack

but really just engage her about it

like im trying but every point i make she dismiss that nobady loves her and she is made to love sb (that one guy) but she cant

Then you need to get her off of that guy

and propbably she already hurted herself like she has got something like cigs stains on arm but that can be acid burns cus we work with that kind of shit

the best you can do is propose an ear for her to truly let out anything thats bothering her,and help her find better ways to deal with whatever shes bottling inside her

Maybe say that her mannerisms have become a little worrysome and that you wouldnt be a damn good friend at all if you didnt ask because you genuinely do give a shit

like everything i wrote here i get know form her personaly

@Trash Squid yeah man I've been hearing about the dumpster fire with the navy recently

ok guys thanks

I hope that helped my guy

ya all i will try what u said cus tomorow we have extara chem lessons and she attends them too so in the brake when school is semi empty i hope i could talk with here eyes to eyes

Keep us posted,son

Luck, Jaru

So my dad keeps talking about my girl about me going back into the service. I have no intentions of going back and my girl has like an anxiety attack because a close friend of hers died in Afghan. So in turn my girl starts freaking out and yelling at me. How can I bring this up to my dad with out being a dick

Like go talk with him

U know go for a beer or go fishing with him

And show them that you gona work in us

Yea if its ir dad just be straightup

My girl has hella anxiety and shit, told my dad that yelling triggers her and lo and behold he did it.

Like dad is like your buddy but he is not going to betray ya

But its not "Stop doing that ur triggering her!" But much more dialogue

Sometimes you'd be amazed at what communications do

@P I L L A R M A N its the airforce i'm working with atm

@Trash Squid are you soldier or just working in the banking cus atm is like cash machine

I thought everything was cush with the usaf

Funding and personnel and materialwise

nah the airforce is fucking autistic

and i'm a contractor for them

*Pmc intensifies*

Yeet

Was navy but went reservists and started doing pmc work

More money

So like in us or abroad

Like desc job shiet or practical tasks like logistic security?

Or keeping airforce from yeeting it self?

I do cyber security, and in the US

*sweats in cyber insecurity*

Fucking chairforce. I swear all the spastic cadets from CAP went on to fill their ranks with weebery and disappointment

You talking shit about the Chair Bourne rangers?

Let’s face it, the only real branch for men is the puddle pirates.