Message from @jaruspk
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And ya I'll be fine just irritated with this bas on some bullshit
And my PMO's fucking up literally all my shit
guys here is the deal i have friend, a girl who lost bf like love from first sight i know
long story short she feeling empty insied she started somking like 1pack of cigs a day talks about that she will be dead one day
like how to help her
doomer shieet
Sounds like she just going through and edgy fase
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I did the same at one point
Got over it after like a month or so
Just be supportive and nice to her and cheer her up when possible
Just give her attention, that's all she wants. You won't ever know about the people you should be worried about because they won't say anything at all and will just do it one day.
man that is a fucking 6 month now
like i am only one who talks with her like sincerely
Talk to her about it then, just ask if she is okay and try to explain your worries
Then nobody is talking to her in a emotionally engaging way, they probably just "Ayy dude lmao same"
I mean we all be on thst doomer juice from time to time
no im trying to say like she started being aline like she is rocking head phones in the middle of the school brak and she used to talk with each other
but now totla aline shit
This also may be a possibility, hate saying this shit because it's kinda incel. Maybe she's trying to get another dude to care about her, so she's going to keep the melodramatic doomer shit up till they care.
nah
she used to have every month new bf till that one
Then her coping mechanisms are kinda wack
but really just engage her about it
like im trying but every point i make she dismiss that nobady loves her and she is made to love sb (that one guy) but she cant
Then you need to get her off of that guy
and propbably she already hurted herself like she has got something like cigs stains on arm but that can be acid burns cus we work with that kind of shit
the best you can do is propose an ear for her to truly let out anything thats bothering her,and help her find better ways to deal with whatever shes bottling inside her
Maybe say that her mannerisms have become a little worrysome and that you wouldnt be a damn good friend at all if you didnt ask because you genuinely do give a shit
like everything i wrote here i get know form her personaly
@Trash Squid yeah man I've been hearing about the dumpster fire with the navy recently
ok guys thanks
I hope that helped my guy
ya all i will try what u said cus tomorow we have extara chem lessons and she attends them too so in the brake when school is semi empty i hope i could talk with here eyes to eyes
Keep us posted,son
Luck, Jaru
So my dad keeps talking about my girl about me going back into the service. I have no intentions of going back and my girl has like an anxiety attack because a close friend of hers died in Afghan. So in turn my girl starts freaking out and yelling at me. How can I bring this up to my dad with out being a dick
Like go talk with him
U know go for a beer or go fishing with him
And show them that you gona work in us
Yea if its ir dad just be straightup
My girl has hella anxiety and shit, told my dad that yelling triggers her and lo and behold he did it.