Message from @jaruspk

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2019-10-01 19:31:29 UTC  

And ya I'll be fine just irritated with this bas on some bullshit

2019-10-01 19:31:49 UTC  

And my PMO's fucking up literally all my shit

2019-10-01 19:35:06 UTC  

guys here is the deal i have friend, a girl who lost bf like love from first sight i know
long story short she feeling empty insied she started somking like 1pack of cigs a day talks about that she will be dead one day
like how to help her

2019-10-01 19:35:37 UTC  

doomer shieet

2019-10-01 19:35:43 UTC  

Sounds like she just going through and edgy fase

2019-10-01 19:35:47 UTC  

^

2019-10-01 19:35:50 UTC  

I did the same at one point

2019-10-01 19:36:02 UTC  

Got over it after like a month or so

2019-10-01 19:36:19 UTC  

Just be supportive and nice to her and cheer her up when possible

2019-10-01 19:36:22 UTC  

Just give her attention, that's all she wants. You won't ever know about the people you should be worried about because they won't say anything at all and will just do it one day.

2019-10-01 19:36:33 UTC  

man that is a fucking 6 month now

2019-10-01 19:37:00 UTC  

like i am only one who talks with her like sincerely

2019-10-01 19:37:06 UTC  

Talk to her about it then, just ask if she is okay and try to explain your worries

2019-10-01 19:37:07 UTC  

Then nobody is talking to her in a emotionally engaging way, they probably just "Ayy dude lmao same"

2019-10-01 19:37:55 UTC  

I mean we all be on thst doomer juice from time to time

2019-10-01 19:38:36 UTC  

no im trying to say like she started being aline like she is rocking head phones in the middle of the school brak and she used to talk with each other

2019-10-01 19:38:46 UTC  

but now totla aline shit

2019-10-01 19:39:13 UTC  

This also may be a possibility, hate saying this shit because it's kinda incel. Maybe she's trying to get another dude to care about her, so she's going to keep the melodramatic doomer shit up till they care.

2019-10-01 19:39:31 UTC  

nah

2019-10-01 19:39:51 UTC  

she used to have every month new bf till that one

2019-10-01 19:40:22 UTC  

but how to talk with tha peolpe

2019-10-01 19:40:47 UTC  

Then her coping mechanisms are kinda wack

2019-10-01 19:40:54 UTC  

but really just engage her about it

2019-10-01 19:41:44 UTC  

like im trying but every point i make she dismiss that nobady loves her and she is made to love sb (that one guy) but she cant

2019-10-01 19:42:27 UTC  

Then you need to get her off of that guy

2019-10-01 19:42:44 UTC  

and propbably she already hurted herself like she has got something like cigs stains on arm but that can be acid burns cus we work with that kind of shit

2019-10-01 19:43:47 UTC  

the best you can do is propose an ear for her to truly let out anything thats bothering her,and help her find better ways to deal with whatever shes bottling inside her

2019-10-01 19:44:23 UTC  

Maybe say that her mannerisms have become a little worrysome and that you wouldnt be a damn good friend at all if you didnt ask because you genuinely do give a shit

2019-10-01 19:45:04 UTC  

like everything i wrote here i get know form her personaly

2019-10-01 19:45:26 UTC  

@Trash Squid yeah man I've been hearing about the dumpster fire with the navy recently

2019-10-01 19:45:44 UTC  

ok guys thanks

2019-10-01 19:46:04 UTC  

I hope that helped my guy

2019-10-01 19:46:59 UTC  

ya all i will try what u said cus tomorow we have extara chem lessons and she attends them too so in the brake when school is semi empty i hope i could talk with here eyes to eyes

2019-10-01 19:47:31 UTC  

Keep us posted,son

2019-10-01 19:49:11 UTC  

Luck, Jaru

2019-10-01 20:51:52 UTC  

So my dad keeps talking about my girl about me going back into the service. I have no intentions of going back and my girl has like an anxiety attack because a close friend of hers died in Afghan. So in turn my girl starts freaking out and yelling at me. How can I bring this up to my dad with out being a dick

2019-10-01 20:52:37 UTC  

Like go talk with him

2019-10-01 20:53:06 UTC  

U know go for a beer or go fishing with him

2019-10-01 20:53:35 UTC  

And show them that you gona work in us

2019-10-01 20:54:03 UTC  

Yea if its ir dad just be straightup

2019-10-01 20:54:44 UTC  

My girl has hella anxiety and shit, told my dad that yelling triggers her and lo and behold he did it.