Message from @Redxl

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2019-12-31 00:01:29 UTC  

It can help, unless it doesn't and when it doesn't- major catastrophe.

2019-12-31 00:01:34 UTC  

Society has rarely seen gender when it came to workplaces

2019-12-31 00:01:36 UTC  

I mean

2019-12-31 00:01:48 UTC  

It all came down to the mindset of the time

2019-12-31 00:01:54 UTC  

well, the married man 'competes' in tasks that push the future forward

2019-12-31 00:02:00 UTC  

"Man does this, woman does that"

2019-12-31 00:02:08 UTC  

the bachelor competes for the next piece of tail

2019-12-31 00:02:25 UTC  

But aside from that the variations were pretty dynamic

2019-12-31 00:02:26 UTC  

exactly, andrew

2019-12-31 00:02:41 UTC  

seperate spheres of influence and responsibility

2019-12-31 00:02:51 UTC  

You would have female factory workers (a ton of them actually) female scientists, etc

2019-12-31 00:03:03 UTC  

and two different sets of rules, one unique to the abilities of that gender

2019-12-31 00:04:09 UTC  

Women were traditionally entrusted to perform the intangible things like watch out for men who pushed themselves for too hard for too long and scorn women who were reckless with their influence or uses if for selfish purposes

2019-12-31 00:04:25 UTC  

Women's intuition?

2019-12-31 00:04:28 UTC  

It's dead.

2019-12-31 00:04:32 UTC  

Some degree of deviation is required, for men, we often defer to our wives, for women, they often defer to their male collogues.

2019-12-31 00:05:01 UTC  

it's not a matter of 'defering' though

2019-12-31 00:05:09 UTC  

cooperation

2019-12-31 00:05:09 UTC  

it's a matter of specialization

2019-12-31 00:05:17 UTC  

she deals with the morality

2019-12-31 00:05:24 UTC  

Men of great talent get inspired by

2019-12-31 00:05:28 UTC  

he deals with finding a way to do even the impossible

2019-12-31 00:06:08 UTC  

Women of great talent get guidance

2019-12-31 00:06:15 UTC  

i've described before, there are two perspectives in which one can view any activity or situation

2019-12-31 00:06:22 UTC  

Goal Oriented vs Purpose Oriented

2019-12-31 00:07:03 UTC  

one examines what they have and then decides what they want to do/should do based on what they CAN do

2019-12-31 00:07:09 UTC  

the other does the exact opposite

2019-12-31 00:07:37 UTC  

they examine what they WANT to do, THEN examine what they have before finally considering how to get there

2019-12-31 00:08:08 UTC  

men and women working together allows her to specialize in the mode of operations she is better and and likewise with him

2019-12-31 00:08:41 UTC  

women have a higher EQ by their nature

2019-12-31 00:09:47 UTC  

BTW, the goal vs purpose orientation is why people like Sargon and Richard Spencer talk PAST each other

2019-12-31 00:10:20 UTC  

Ever work on a project full of men, working well- hierarchy is established, minor issues, then the woman comes in and suddenly the men's behaviors shift drastically?

2019-12-31 00:10:32 UTC  

all the time

2019-12-31 00:10:48 UTC  

testoterone posioning

2019-12-31 00:10:52 UTC  

It's the most betraying thing.

2019-12-31 00:11:15 UTC  

suddenly they open up and share everything, do things you wished they would have done for you.

2019-12-31 00:11:23 UTC  

incredible

2019-12-31 00:11:27 UTC  

well, men need security first before they can go from competing to challenging in a helpful way

2019-12-31 00:11:39 UTC  

being married is the ultimate security

2019-12-31 00:11:59 UTC  

yeah, that's a HUGE no-no

2019-12-31 00:12:06 UTC  

it's true, I was never flirted more with than when I was married, that says a shitload about the female mindset.