It's dead.

Some degree of deviation is required, for men, we often defer to our wives, for women, they often defer to their male collogues.

it's not a matter of 'defering' though

cooperation

it's a matter of specialization

she deals with the morality

Men of great talent get inspired by

he deals with finding a way to do even the impossible

Women of great talent get guidance

i've described before, there are two perspectives in which one can view any activity or situation

Goal Oriented vs Purpose Oriented

one examines what they have and then decides what they want to do/should do based on what they CAN do

the other does the exact opposite

they examine what they WANT to do, THEN examine what they have before finally considering how to get there

men and women working together allows her to specialize in the mode of operations she is better and and likewise with him

women have a higher EQ by their nature

BTW, the goal vs purpose orientation is why people like Sargon and Richard Spencer talk PAST each other

Ever work on a project full of men, working well- hierarchy is established, minor issues, then the woman comes in and suddenly the men's behaviors shift drastically?

all the time

testoterone posioning

It's the most betraying thing.

suddenly they open up and share everything, do things you wished they would have done for you.

incredible

well, men need security first before they can go from competing to challenging in a helpful way

being married is the ultimate security

yeah, that's a HUGE no-no

it's true, I was never flirted more with than when I was married, that says a shitload about the female mindset.

there is no greater betray a woman can commit that violating the integrity of a man's space

ever notice when a guy STOPS flirting in those situations?

women follows him around like a puppy trying to figure out why he doesn't notive

One summer, i had three really great 'friends' from the local german language group that met every week for a few beers

The three of them were new to the area so we did alot of hanging out... my god, women were coming after me like I was a candy bar at a fat farm

apperhent demand

I know this, my swiss buddy here uses me as his chick magnet, why I stopped socializing

Stop looking and ye shall find...

Might have another go later this year, I don't know, hate the "exotic mantel piece" bullshit

i hear ya

Can't tolerant women that would go for that

nor can I

personally, i am kinda fed up with the 'I don't need no man' bullshit

That's another variable rampant