Message from @Lidomite

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2019-12-01 02:50:51 UTC  

Not like a squad or section does in the military

2019-12-01 02:50:59 UTC  

Most people don't interact with everyone in their class

2019-12-01 02:51:00 UTC  

boys will feel more pressure to set themselves apart and do things like act like a tough guy or class clown

2019-12-01 02:51:37 UTC  

I don't think it forms an actual ingroup

2019-12-01 02:51:44 UTC  

Its why there are cliques

2019-12-01 02:51:54 UTC  

what 'it'?

2019-12-01 02:52:01 UTC  

Classroom

2019-12-01 02:52:06 UTC  

Group of students

2019-12-01 02:52:20 UTC  

that is often worse though

2019-12-01 02:52:26 UTC  

Wish I could experience the social dynamics of an all boys school <:why:462286147473637407>

2019-12-01 02:52:33 UTC  

because the deck is constantly reshuffled

2019-12-01 02:52:48 UTC  

so each is looking to re-establish respective hierarchy

2019-12-01 02:52:53 UTC  

girls and boys

2019-12-01 02:53:02 UTC  

Pulling the mat from out under people like that is kind of vicious

2019-12-01 02:53:21 UTC  

It does help them to learn to be able to cooperate with more people I guess

2019-12-01 02:53:29 UTC  

Rather then just their friends

2019-12-01 02:53:36 UTC  

Than

2019-12-01 02:53:44 UTC  

@livid_scrooge Fuck off Livid

2019-12-01 02:54:02 UTC  

maybe? i don't think that is what it teaches. i think it teaches how to establish and maintain dominance hierarchy more than anything

2019-12-01 02:54:03 UTC  

It’s like christ, not that hard

2019-12-01 02:54:09 UTC  

Christ

2019-12-01 02:54:20 UTC  

Shut up immigrant

2019-12-01 02:54:29 UTC  

Maybe I feel the classes are too big to even do that

2019-12-01 02:54:34 UTC  

read lenord sax about why gender matters

2019-12-01 02:54:39 UTC  

it just LOOKS like teamwork because the the plebes (lower status kids) fall inline quickly

2019-12-01 02:54:42 UTC  

discusses why you want all girl or boy schools

2019-12-01 02:54:49 UTC  

Actually I don't think it does that at all

2019-12-01 02:55:13 UTC  

Because hierarchical positioning requires you to be apart of the ingroup

2019-12-01 02:55:30 UTC  

This sets up subgroups that are against each other

2019-12-01 02:55:38 UTC  

you don't think that the popular kids instantly inherit a position of status when mixed with a new set of plebes?

2019-12-01 02:55:56 UTC  

They'd do that anyway

2019-12-01 02:56:17 UTC  

no they don't; popular kids wouldn't normally ASSOCIATE with those plebes

2019-12-01 02:56:24 UTC  

they'd stick to their own groups

2019-12-01 02:56:40 UTC  

I’m a popular kid

2019-12-01 02:56:48 UTC  

but the new class gives plebes access they wouldn't normally have

2019-12-01 02:56:53 UTC  

Okay I get what you're saying

2019-12-01 02:57:03 UTC  

@ManAnimal In my experience, if I'm working on a project with a kid more popular than me, than I just tend to fall in line. Take the path of least resistance.

2019-12-01 02:57:14 UTC  

^

2019-12-01 02:57:59 UTC  

It’s not about popularity when it comes to projects it’s about leadership skills

2019-12-01 02:58:12 UTC  

@livid_scrooge It really is...

2019-12-01 02:58:19 UTC  

sometimes you wield it and aren't even aware that you wield it; that was me in school; EVERYONE knew who i was; i didn't feel that way though