Normal is what built society, that is a man and woman coming together in marriage and having children and raising them to do the same, to wait until marriage to have sex, to get married to a man if they're a woman and to a woman if they're a man.
What is moral is any and all actions taken to ensure the survival of the collective so long as they do not increase the chances of the collective being destroyed. This entails natalistic governmental policies, promoting healthy (heterosexual) sexual relations after marriage, fighting to the death to protect your family, your local community, your nation, and your Race. If that means the death of the individual in combat then they will be remembered as a hero
