I guess.

diminished capactiy? @vegeta don't believe that for a second - you know you better than any of us

Okay @Deleted User

Thanks

i give up

@vegeta I know what it's like for everyone to be dismissive based on age - it sucks, and don't take it

Okay @Deleted User I won't take it from anyone

at this point im the crazy old mad on the street with a cardboard sign saying the end is near

Lol

@dogl if you say so

@dogl I don't doubt your intentions, btw

This might actually be the year

@Deleted User its no problem

I'm old and weathered

and @vegeta is my baby bird

Neither do I @dogl

I'll fight for him

Dovah's like a dad to me on this server.

just try to be a little more skeptical of everything that goes on for however long it takes you to talk to her

I don't want to talk to her

when i tried talking to my dad about him being abusive i didnt have any evidence and felt like an idiot

@vegeta you don't have to, but if you can, and you give her all of the changes to do so, then that's all you can do

I feel like I'm a cunt whenever I think my mum is being mean to me.

I always end up thinking it's my fault

@vegeta some people simply refuse to act like an adult, and that's up the them.

^

I gave my father and brother a long long time to shape up, and they kept hurting me, so I stopped talking to them for about 8-10 years now

I'm a MUCH happier person

I'm also a mad crazy american 🦀

Family need to act like family, or else they can take a hike.

One time I tried to confront my mum about everything she's done to me (I don't want to get into detail) and she flipped the blame onto me, and I just took it.

@vegeta that's what abusers do, bro

i think its also important to note that if your mother ever tries to say "you cant leave your family because they're you're family" you should think of the saying "blood is thicker than the water of the womb"

Sometimes i think i don't even love her anymore.

it's never their fault, or else they would have to not like themselves

My grandpa was like this.

None of us were that broken up when he died.

Granpa did nothing wrong

@vegeta you're innocent, obviously. at 13, and in a wheelchair, you can't take care of yourself. She's responsible - don't forget that

anyone else have a narcissistic*abuser?

Spot the red flags