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But to me she was a 1538/10

Well, do you wish to have my mindset and just actively try to avoid having any form of irl social life because you're too afraid of rejection and/or the pain from knowing that you after giving someone every personal detail of yourself and your mindset just to eventually part ways and feeling that no one will ever understand you and feel like no one is going to put up with you because you have such a negative opinion of yourself?

No

Good.

I ain't becoming a MGTOW (I know that's not what you meant but)

I understand

So wait, you're afraid of rejection?

It's a couple of factors really

Indulge me

But mostly it's the idea of giving someone every single facet of my mindset and stuff to someone and the possibility of the relationship going downhill after pouring every ounce of myself to another person to have it be all wasted is terrifying to me.

It doesn't help that I don't have the greatest headspace to be in any relationship currently as well.

Like, mental health wise.

Ohhhhhh okay yeah I get you

You're afraid of being vulnerable to someone and them not caring for you anymore

yup

Understandable

But it's something you have to risk

no

Yes

No

You can't make me..

You're not my momma

Dude it'll be worth it

And that's coming from the man with the broken heart

Well, again, I'm not too well mentally to begin with.

So, I really don't want to go into a relationship until I have at least some of that under control.

How so?

Like, real talk, I genuinely hate myself.

That's just how I feel.

And I think negatively a lot.

Dude why?

I mean, I don't like certain parts of myself and I used to hate myself

I've had this negative opinion of myself for a while, probably started off as self depricating humor and spiraled out of control to the point where I started to believe my own jokes

i feel that irl my attitude just annoys people and feel like a burden to peole.

To me it was the other way around

No wait, I actually remember now.

People said mean things to me and then I'd just use self depricating humor to get out

I didn't do so well in school and I felt like a dissapointment to my parents for not doing as well as I should have, now that I actually thought about it.

Then whenever I made one of those jokes around my ex she'd glare at me or say 'please don't say that'

I doubt you disappointed your parents, that's hard to do