Message from @Incursio

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2017-12-20 23:37:35 UTC  

y0

2017-12-20 23:37:37 UTC  

And I donā€™t feel too comfortable asking them because more often than not when I bring it up it ends up with me being very depressed and them telling me I make everyone around me miserable by focusing on this one thing.

2017-12-20 23:40:24 UTC  

This is depressing

2017-12-20 23:40:33 UTC  

You know, some parents may view you different obviously, most do. I mean for however many years you were their little boy/girl. It's a common thing with depression to set in. That's not right for them to tell you that. They are the ones who should be helping you. I think the best thing for you to do is work on some courage, give them some information about this.

2017-12-20 23:40:59 UTC  

Give them something to read, and I think you need to help them understand this process a little better, all the while trying to find someone who can help you if they can;t.

2017-12-20 23:41:55 UTC  

People fear what they don't really understand.

2017-12-20 23:42:13 UTC  

What should I give them to read?

2017-12-20 23:42:19 UTC  

Hmm

2017-12-20 23:42:24 UTC  

Not sure where they are in terms of understanding

2017-12-20 23:42:32 UTC  

How long have they known?

2017-12-20 23:43:14 UTC  

About 2.5 years

2017-12-20 23:43:44 UTC  

Donā€™t know where they are in terms of understanding trans people. My dad thinks thereā€™s more than 2 genders but tells me I can learn to live with what I have and that hormones is just like a normal girl getting a boob job

2017-12-20 23:43:51 UTC  

That's quite few. It takes a while longer. Some parents it takes longer or shorter. It all depends. But the more information you can provide them with the better.

2017-12-20 23:44:23 UTC  

Do you take any anti-depressants?

2017-12-20 23:44:43 UTC  

The communist manifesto is pretty good

2017-12-20 23:45:38 UTC  

No I donā€™t. Been trying to schedule with a psychiatrist for months but things have been troublesome in terms of scheduling

2017-12-20 23:46:54 UTC  

You will need to probably start with telling them, that this is something very serious for you and that you are not the only one with this. It's not as simple as saying "just learn to live with what you have".... that's like telling a depressed person "just get over it already"

2017-12-20 23:48:24 UTC  

In terms of scheduling, that is understandable, lol I have problems with scheduling a psychiatrist. I still live with my mom and it's real busy around here so.

2017-12-20 23:48:34 UTC  

and of course there are multiple other things but

2017-12-20 23:49:59 UTC  

It's a good step that you do in fact have a psychiatrist in hand. I'm not actually sure of your situation but think about what may be interrupting the scheduling. Thing about what may be the best time when you think nothing is going on.

2017-12-20 23:50:19 UTC  

It all sounds simple, but take notes of what your parents are doing throughout the week.

2017-12-20 23:51:55 UTC  

Iā€™ve been trying, hopefully things will settle down after the holidays when my dad isnā€™t as busy

2017-12-20 23:52:10 UTC  

True, the holidays are crazy busy.

2017-12-20 23:52:36 UTC  

hi

2017-12-20 23:52:42 UTC  

Hello

2017-12-20 23:52:51 UTC  

Henlo

2017-12-20 23:52:57 UTC  

Any idea on some reading material?

2017-12-20 23:53:08 UTC  

Communist

2017-12-20 23:53:12 UTC  

wow

2017-12-20 23:53:12 UTC  

imm pm

2017-12-20 23:53:13 UTC  

Manifesto

2017-12-20 23:53:40 UTC  

communism is the way to go

2017-12-20 23:53:58 UTC  

The communist manifesto is an interesting text

2017-12-20 23:53:59 UTC  

raise your hand if youre really stressedāœ‹

2017-12-20 23:54:04 UTC  

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2017-12-20 23:54:12 UTC  

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2017-12-20 23:54:25 UTC  

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2017-12-20 23:54:30 UTC  

ahhhhhhh

2017-12-20 23:54:48 UTC  

raise your hand if you think communism is good āœ‹

2017-12-20 23:54:58 UTC  

Insert heil

2017-12-20 23:55:19 UTC  

cool guy