Message from @Incursio

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2017-12-20 23:27:40 UTC  

Yeah

2017-12-20 23:27:44 UTC  

i burn pparents

2017-12-20 23:28:15 UTC  

My neighbour yells at his kids all the time I should propably say something but Idk how I could help

2017-12-20 23:28:34 UTC  

burn him

2017-12-20 23:28:58 UTC  

What a great idea

2017-12-20 23:29:03 UTC  

I dunno, lots of parents will shit on you for telling them how to ā€œdo their jobā€

2017-12-20 23:29:32 UTC  

i am full of great ideas

2017-12-20 23:29:33 UTC  

Especially if you donā€™t have children of your own

2017-12-20 23:29:40 UTC  

Yeah that's why I haven't said anything

2017-12-20 23:29:45 UTC  

i was a child once

2017-12-20 23:30:02 UTC  

I was a child once as well, I hated it

2017-12-20 23:30:18 UTC  

Fire is a fun thing. Too bad It's raining right now.

2017-12-20 23:30:30 UTC  

Kinda feel like my childhood was robbed of me for my stupid decisions, or more so lack of decisions

2017-12-20 23:30:35 UTC  

Even though I'm a pluviophile and ā¤ rain

2017-12-20 23:30:43 UTC  

Fuck off Dog

2017-12-20 23:31:46 UTC  

Is it realistic to blame yourself for stupid shit you did or stuff you should have done when you were young?

2017-12-20 23:31:53 UTC  

no

2017-12-20 23:32:24 UTC  

It's realistic. There are things I wish I hadn't of done when I was younger.

2017-12-20 23:32:35 UTC  

I blame myself for everything

2017-12-20 23:33:07 UTC  

I feel like my parents would be more understanding if I was more open to them about being trans and shit when I was younger. Cuz my mom is like ā€œI didnā€™t see any signsā€ and all that dumb shit

2017-12-20 23:33:07 UTC  

It's natural that people do stupid shit particularly when they're young. Then they learn from it and move on.

2017-12-20 23:34:01 UTC  

It's the hardest for parents when their child is transgender. It takes a lot of time for them.

2017-12-20 23:36:14 UTC  

Like, Iā€™m not sure how my parents view me nowadays. I feel like what theyā€™ve said to me in the past distorts my reality of how I think they view me currently.

2017-12-20 23:37:02 UTC  

Maybe your parents would of had a lot more time to adjust if you told them when you were young. Don't blame yourself for that, being transgender is a hard thing to go through, and when you're young, you're still trying to figure yourself out and may prolong telling your parents because of the fear of reaction.

2017-12-20 23:37:27 UTC  

if you told them when you were young they would have thought it was a phase y0

2017-12-20 23:37:34 UTC  

you're doing fine

2017-12-20 23:37:35 UTC  

y0

2017-12-20 23:37:37 UTC  

And I donā€™t feel too comfortable asking them because more often than not when I bring it up it ends up with me being very depressed and them telling me I make everyone around me miserable by focusing on this one thing.

2017-12-20 23:40:24 UTC  

This is depressing

2017-12-20 23:40:33 UTC  

You know, some parents may view you different obviously, most do. I mean for however many years you were their little boy/girl. It's a common thing with depression to set in. That's not right for them to tell you that. They are the ones who should be helping you. I think the best thing for you to do is work on some courage, give them some information about this.

2017-12-20 23:40:59 UTC  

Give them something to read, and I think you need to help them understand this process a little better, all the while trying to find someone who can help you if they can;t.

2017-12-20 23:41:55 UTC  

People fear what they don't really understand.

2017-12-20 23:42:13 UTC  

What should I give them to read?

2017-12-20 23:42:19 UTC  

Hmm

2017-12-20 23:42:24 UTC  

Not sure where they are in terms of understanding

2017-12-20 23:42:32 UTC  

How long have they known?

2017-12-20 23:43:14 UTC  

About 2.5 years

2017-12-20 23:43:44 UTC  

Donā€™t know where they are in terms of understanding trans people. My dad thinks thereā€™s more than 2 genders but tells me I can learn to live with what I have and that hormones is just like a normal girl getting a boob job

2017-12-20 23:43:51 UTC  

That's quite few. It takes a while longer. Some parents it takes longer or shorter. It all depends. But the more information you can provide them with the better.

2017-12-20 23:44:23 UTC  

Do you take any anti-depressants?