anyway, let that guilt go, learn from it but dont be too be too defensive when being into another friendship, it's the past and probably will never happen again... there's lots of manipulative people but there's also alot of good people out there, just need to see more clearly through the correct ones. @kpalmthenapalm

It’s honestly not cool I’ve been holding it in and crying all night and I’m not a sensitive person. I’m over it. Thx for those that actually talked to be about it tho 🤤

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I find it ironic you're calling someone else's distress a basic bitch problem, when you don't even know WHY you feel the way you do, Fruity. Seems a by hypocritical

Sending you love ❤️ fuck that abusive person

BIT

douchebag statement

Self-analysis is pretty complicated to do and usually requires a therapist

you guys be really off the goop

Okay shut the fuck up meddle, you have no grounds to talk

You’ve said similar shitty things to people before

@Wesleyy

Hi

You don't need a therapist

They help

But

For self analysis

Just read what I said, look at yourself and your action

*actions

therapists help, but most of the work needs to be done by yourself

And analyze

^^

I think I’ve established I don’t care enough to do that

@kpalmthenapalm If you need to talk I can do my best in general chat or just chat.

Most of therapy is having an outsider be able to tell you what's going wrong by what you are saying. Which means they are listening to what you say, and helping you identify the root of the problem. And then you mostly have to do the legwork yourself.

nah I think I have a right to say that's a cock move

well... then figure out why you do not care

Then don't take it out on someone that seems to have actually analyzed their situation and changed it

being a hypocrite doesn't make me wrong

So learning to be able to do the first part yourself is a good step. But if you NEED that push, then you should get it

You have a right to say it but you’re a hypocritical shithead

Therapists can't do everything for you, people think "just go to therapy everything will be better" maybe but it doesn't solve everything. You have to do the work for yourself too, and if you aren't willing to do that therapy won't work, just like the self analysis thingie.

Guys if you are going to fight go to <#373303965212999681>

I don't think we're fighting.

It's a discussion.

Not from what I am seeing

it's not a fight

Regardless I’m not motivated enough to help myself

Someone said bullshit, we called them out on their bullshit. I dont think anyone's actually angry lol

@Wesleyy Then, again, stop taking it out on others and blaming others for your own lack of self-motivation

well you're motivated enough to speak about it here