therapists help, but most of the work needs to be done by yourself

And analyze

^^

I think I’ve established I don’t care enough to do that

@kpalmthenapalm If you need to talk I can do my best in general chat or just chat.

Most of therapy is having an outsider be able to tell you what's going wrong by what you are saying. Which means they are listening to what you say, and helping you identify the root of the problem. And then you mostly have to do the legwork yourself.

nah I think I have a right to say that's a cock move

well... then figure out why you do not care

Then don't take it out on someone that seems to have actually analyzed their situation and changed it

being a hypocrite doesn't make me wrong

So learning to be able to do the first part yourself is a good step. But if you NEED that push, then you should get it

You have a right to say it but you’re a hypocritical shithead

Therapists can't do everything for you, people think "just go to therapy everything will be better" maybe but it doesn't solve everything. You have to do the work for yourself too, and if you aren't willing to do that therapy won't work, just like the self analysis thingie.

Guys if you are going to fight go to <#373303965212999681>

I don't think we're fighting.

It's a discussion.

Not from what I am seeing

it's not a fight

Regardless I’m not motivated enough to help myself

Someone said bullshit, we called them out on their bullshit. I dont think anyone's actually angry lol

@Wesleyy Then, again, stop taking it out on others and blaming others for your own lack of self-motivation

well you're motivated enough to speak about it here

Why not

that's a start I guess

@Wesleyy I understand that. And usually finding the motivation is the hardest step to take.

It affects others in the same negative way that you get when people ignore you

Dude just go to tinder

I know. I don’t care

fuck someone on there

also, tell someone that's closer to you rather than people on the internet, it help get a better push

I’m not legal wolf

Yet you were bragging that you're gonna fuck a guy tomorrow

oh yeah that is right

And him being virgin isnt the issue lol, he fucked some wo-man. Contrary to 4chan belief, fucking someone isnt going to make you happy lol

Well it’s easier when they aren’t females

well just beat it to porn until you feel happy

or do drugs

having love when down is just going to damage the other person more rather than yourself

Do drugs... Huh.

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*don't promote that man*