Message from @Goodwood of Dank™
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Are black women the reason why the men flee and never raise their children? <:thinkgon:560211224923734026>
@Orion what are you doing man?
dude if i heard you did it 13 times in a row i might leave too
i still think the hood rat problem could be solved by better parenting
Or having actual parents, plural.
plenty of well adjusted black people in the real world, many of those have good parents
many of those who end up shit have single moms or bad parenting in general
Black folks are people just like anyone else; People do much better when they grow up in a functional, stable, two-parent household.
mhm
Good parents don't let their kid realize they're good parents until their kid is in at least HS, no matter your financial situation you kid should be raised being told no frequently. Not just to say no, but just not entertaining their stupid ideas.
Nice.
Even a single parent can raise a good kid if they instill an understanding that actions have consequences and you won't always be there
True, but it should be a single parent's goal to become a joint parent.
Or at least a primary goal.
like hey "lets try to find a good step-dad"
or w/e
Yes.
people diss on stepdads, but they're good people more often than not
(more often you're looking for a dad is what i mean)
@Goodwood of Dank™ not a goal, but at least finding a proper role model. Youth program instructors and the like, don't try to make them part of your life, just show respect to them and make sure your kid does too. Kids just need a template
due to the "woman near always gets custody" thing
actually ye
anyone who presents themselves as a "respectable authority"
Yeah, I hear ya.
even the single parent
but more than one is always better
A good step mom can be harder to find than a good step dad
im sure it can be
but you're looking for a lot more stepdads
Because good men are more willing to be the second husband than a good woman is willing to be a second wife
Nowadays, sure. But that's more a modern thing.
Thanks to the rise in hypergamy.
i suppose i get his point though
usually with women its like "i can find a willing husband the first time, why settle"
i guess
It’s ideal when the child understands why you say no and builds a decision making compass early
want the full parenting experience or whatever
Unless said husband is quite successful.