Message from @Szayel's Pooppion
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I kinda want to ask a question but it’s alil inappropriate. I guess I should read more Freud but I’m interested in sexual psychology and I have ideas about it. For instance I understand homosexuality & pedophila to be extreme examples of taboo perversions, and I’m interested in looking into how that comes about in childhood. BDSM is another perversion & the way I see it is, as long as it doesn’t go to the extremes, which they have safe words and practices so that it does not, and ofc as long as you’re married, it’s okay. But what I’m interested in with this as well is how this perversion comes about. If you find yourself attracted to bondage is there a correlation with trauma, etc in childhood, & in the case with people who like normal/vanilla sex, does that mean that traumas in childhood were not repressed to the point it tainted their sexuality?
I’m also curious if being attracted to rough sexual play is simply a biological and natural thing being that, when you look at animals, they don’t look like they’re “making love,” but what also comes to mind is how widely common rape in olden times was. Not that rape itself is normal, but I just wonder if that caused people to evolve in a way to desire roughness
Sorry if this was too much lol
Sex is one of if not the last "primal" thing that humans do
Everything else has slowly been replaced, such as most humans don't hunt, as they have food at the grocery store
So with sex being so primal, it's natural for it to be rough and agressive.
Most primal things are
Which is why the best sex is rough sex, it's a primal instinct
but what also comes to mind is how widely common rape in olden times was...Sounds like SJW propaganda to me
I would say all sexual perversion stems from some sort of abuse, God's will for sex is making babies. Bondage is weird, homosex is weird, doggy style is weird. Animals dont care because they are just that, animals. they are here for us, and God causes them to procreate for us. We as humans created in His image are called to a higher path.
If you are having sex on a primal level, you live in an animalistic state, serving your lust and not God's will.
Also, among adults, nothing is "too much" as long as you are asking questions and not promoting.
@kernalkrackerz if a lack of hunting causes you to seek primal fornication, I will gladly take you hunting 😃
I agree @kernalkrackerz
He didn’t say fornication
Fornication is wrong, whether it’s rough sex or vanilla
Not necessarily SJW. Idk why you thought that.
I didn’t say that I was angry that rape was common. Wasn’t slaughter common? Wasn’t pillaging common? Yes but I have no problem with it bc to me that’s just life
So I’m kind of firm on the point that I feel any sexual perversion is not normal. However I don’t think that makes it wrong. To say that spanking, rough sex & doggy style is weird and unnatural it’s a far stretch to me
I agree sex’s prime & ultimate purpose is to have children. But at the same time, women should submit to their husbands & give sex as a way to relieve his stress. That sounds like such a rigid and boring way to go about to only have sex missionary style if that’s the correct implication
So I ultimately think that when men and women are sons and daughters of god and are under god’s umbrella & protected via marriage; they are free to explore their kinks together as they wish. Now, the thing that is more of a topic of concern and issue to me is how much emotions are going to be stirring the pot. It’s true that even when you’re having sex in the correct way through marriage, it can still cause some emotional turmoil.
This is true whether they’re vanilla or dom/sub. That’s also something I’d be interested in talking about
If it's in the confines of God's definition of marriage, that should be up to the couple. I'm personally not alright with saying what couple can and can not do when it is within marriage.
That’s how I feel, I was just curious to see what others think about sexuality
@DasBoles I go hunting plenty on my farm
It's just that many of our primal instincts have been pointless for quite some time due to our society
Who says rape was ever common?
It was extremely common for the most of human history
The notion of "consent" is pretty new to humans
According to whom? Can you give references to such a claim?
We used to be a bunch of savages thay raped and murdered anything we could
Y'all are wrong on this sex stuff.
lol wut, im in the lefty channel on accident.
And hunted animals daily as it was our only real way of eating
Sex is a holy act, yall are perverts
Other than picking fruits and berries
Then we slowly learned how to farm, and to raise animals and slaughter them, so we no longer needed to use our primal instincts of tracking and hunting
This lead to people banding together, and having a leader designate who farms what, and who makes what to have an optimal harvest of food, and plenty of tool and clothes to use.
Which in turn led to city becoming a thing
And cities raised armies to protect themselves from raiders and barbarians
And soon people started form classes, such as the lower class who were farmers, middle class who were tradesmen or soldiers, and royalty who ruled over everyone