What do u mean deal with

Like does anyone else have that problem?

Is that your problem?

...maybe

I dont think its right to put kids thru that... You would be trumping your own needs over a child's needs

As long as the children benefit, youre right with god

But thats just my opinion.

I think its a choose one or the other kind of situation

Can you elaborate a bit on that? I dont think I fully Understand

Elaborate on which part

Children do better in a two parent home with a father and mother. Why would you want your child to start off on the wrong foot? If you want a family that bad then it makes no sense to want your children to suffer

That makes sense

You shouldn't put your sexual needs over your children.. Thats just wrong

Wrong even for straight people

So Just to make sure I understood. You think I should ignore my gay needs and Just put the children First?

If u feel the need to have children that badly, then you should probably work to overcome it..... Not ignore it... U cant make problems go away by ignoring them

Fair point.

Children dont choose their parents so better not to make it hard on them

Life is hard enuf alreddy

Kids just want to be normal

But overcoming being gay is quite a Challenge These days

Everything is a challenge

If ur not willing to overcome a challenge for the benefit of your own child then you def should not have children. U dont deserve them.

Like what if someone said im a heroine addict and want children but quitting heroine is too hard so im going to just ignore that and have kids anyways

Wow, what a truth bomb. Thank you. Didnt think about IT Like that

Ya yer welcome.

That’s true

I haven’t thought about much if gays desired a children and family badly. That must be a tough thing

I honestly wouldn’t know how to overcome that. But for sure having children requires putting our own desires to the side

Yep sure does

There’s only one way or the other, be content with having a same sex partner or overturn the homosexuality in order to create a family in the natural way

Well its not like theres only one way or the other but it would be selfish otherwise

Family first

After they are grown up and leave the home to start their lives, be as gay as you want

Lol yeah but then that means you only married a woman just to have the child

So that’s not right

That also wouldn’t be natural

The only reason your here is because of thousands of years and many generations of your family putting aside their needs and wants to raise a family

@Lugos

You should do the same for your family

It would be a great dishonor to your long lineage of ancestors to throw away having a family to fulfill your own selfish needs